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Invasion of privacy? Backlash hits couple behind #PlaneBae saga

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The #PlaneBae pair exit the airport. Photo / Twitter

The #PlaneBae pair exit the airport. Photo / Twitter

There's a circle of life for every viral online story and for the creators of #PlaneBae, the backlash has arrived.

The mile-high "love story" took over the internet last week, after Rosey Blair and her boyfriend Houston Hardaway documented the meeting of two fellow passengers on their flight from New York to Dallas.

Blair has been initially seated next to the woman and asked her to switch seats with her boyfriend so they could sit together.

As the exchange was made, Rosey joked that maybe the woman's new seat partner "would be the love of her life" – which seemed to be the case, after she hit it off with her new neighbour immediately.

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However, Blair and Hardaway have since been criticised for turning the lives of two strangers into an online rom-com after they live-tweeted the saga - which quickly went viral.

The initial tweet thread has now been retweeted nearly 370,000 times – attracting plenty of media attraction along the way for Blair, Hardaway and the male half of the #PlaneBae pair, later identified as Euan Holden.

👩❤️✈️ pic.twitter.com/PqV70zQi5Z

— Euan Holden (@EuanHolden) July 5, 2018

The woman Hardaway switched seats with remained silent and Holden posted a video asking people to respect her privacy. However, after he let slip her first name in the video, online sleuths quickly managed to track her down.

Earlier, Blair and Hardaway has posted a video saying the woman had not consented to her identity being shared.

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"We don't have the gal's permish yet," Blair said, adding, "But I'm sure you guys are sneaky."

However, some people raised concerns about Blair's suggestion that "sneaky" people might be able to find the mystery woman.

Others noted that the woman had reportedly deleted all her social media channels after being identified and harassed.

So. That plane bae thread that went viral a few days ago?

The guy was lauded and asked to go on interviews.

The girl was harassed and had to leave social media. She was attacked for doing the same things the guy is praised for.

Still think people treat men and women equally?

— Rin Chupeco (@RinChupeco) July 7, 2018

Many people who initially enjoyed the story said they now had regrets after retweeting it and criticised Blair and Hardaway's voyeurism as "an invasion of privacy".

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I retweeted plane bae story when it was happening and I regret it now. It could’ve been a great story, now it’s just a sad one about another woman being harassed off the internet. Again. https://t.co/r7oAfvJXXf

— Erynn Brook (@ErynnBrook) July 8, 2018

That #planebae saga is an invasion of privacy and if I was that woman I'd get a lawyer to make Rosey Blair take the images down. That is so creepy

— Mo. (@yorubamermaid) July 9, 2018

In an opinion piece for the Atlantic, Taylor Lorenz wrote that secretly live-tweeting strangers for viral fame was "gross" and Blair and Hardaway had taken it too far.

"Even after Helen was forced to quit social media once trolls discovered her account and hurled sexist insults at her, Blair encouraged her followers to investigate and expose the woman's real identity," she wrote.

"Blair also continued to milk the controversy throughout the weekend, posting selfie video updates with information about the drama and attempting to capitalize on her viral success by promoting her acting career and asking for a job at BuzzFeed."

Blair responded to the criticism on Instagram with a long photo caption where she described herself as "some strange variety of journalist".

"I saw a story unfolding in front of my eyes recently and it filled me with the hope of possibility," she wrote.

She described how as a plus size woman, she had believed "dating and love were experiences that simply wouldn't happen for me", but was proved wrong after meeting her boyfriend.

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"I hope that many of you are inspired by the story I shared, she wrote. "Sharing this story has also made me reconsider some of the thoughts of negativity I too have been guilty of putting out into the world."

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