"It was hard to think straight. We were given a huge amount of support, thank goodness.
"A trauma team came up from Whanganui and Youth Line counsellors were here immediately. I will be forever grateful to the Youth Line team. They were just brilliant."
School was a "very, very sad place."
"It was terribly difficult trying to cope and to restore some sense of normality."
And the sadness and the struggle were still going on, he said. James was farewelled at a funeral on March 21 at the Taihape Shearing Pavilion in Taihape Memorial Park, attended by the whole school and most of the community, he said.
Even though counsellors were still calling in to the school, Mr McMillan had been advised to also bring in entertainer and mental health educator Mike King. Mr King will be in Taihape on April 11.
He will be at the school to talk to students through the day and again that night to talk to the community for a gold coin donation.
"I'm told [Mike King] openly shares his experiences and really helps young teens cope with death. I'm very pleased he is coming here. We need him."