Good policies require good information, not prejudices and ill-informed judgments expressed from the sideline by participants who do not know or understand the issues and have no interest in informing themselves about the national and international research. It is a pity to let facts get in the way of a story.
Yes John, well-off families may know of a sole parent in their circle who seems to be coping. But where is the imagination to understand what happens to those who don't have a well-resourced wider family to help.
Relying on that support, often for the basics, cannot depend on the good luck of family circumstances. Too many children miss out.
We don't rely on family support and good luck to ensure that superannuitants have an adequate income. Why should we do that for children? So, John, your article and its anecdotal observations adds nothing to the policy developments required to ensure that all children are able to grow, achieve and belong, ironically the goal of the Green Paper on Vulnerable Children.
Approaching the facts with an open mind would be a good start but, sadly, that is probably too much to expect. Meanwhile, I must get on with my research and writing to do the best I can to ensure that all children get the best start and support in life.
Michael O'Brien is an associate professor in the School of Counselling, Human Services and Social Work at the University of Auckland and convener of the Child Poverty Action Group.