Good taste goes downhill fast when freeski fans let fly.

I've recently been told I should "stick to netball, sweetie" when it comes to my columns. I say, f*** that.

Oh, beg your pardon, please excuse my language. You see, I've become a little desensitised to foul language of late. It tends to happen when you're subjected to abuse through email and social media that flooded in after my column last week on the behaviour of some of our athletes at the Winter Olympics.

In the past week I've been called a c***face, a c***bag, a c***whore (who knew the c-word was conjunctive?), a regular whore, a bitch, a f***ing slut - all without the courtesy of asterisks to soften the blow.

I've been told if I ever drive through Ohakune I'll need a police escort, that if I ever show my face on a mountain there'll be people lining up to "slash your face full of ice, bitch". The bitch part was for emphasis, I think. Another suggested that rather than waiting for me to come to him, he should find out where I live as he is going for his gun licence and I would be useful target practice. To which one of our Kiwi athletes in Sochi responded - "LEGEND!"


Some have suggested my column was a reaction to being sex deprived, while others speculated maybe I was going through a divorce. I've been told I need "a penis in her mouth or a ski pole through her brain".

Another helpfully offered to send me a dildo catalogue. Presumably they think the sex hormones will cloud my brain enough to offer our Winter Olympians my blind, unquestioning support.

But where it gets really confusing for this "silly little girl" is if any of my male colleagues in the media agreed with any of the sentiments expressed in the column or came out in my defence, the conclusion was reached that I must be bonking them. As there have been a fair few of them, that tends to contradict the whole sex-deprived theory, I would have thought.

Then as we've seen in countless instances before this, common sense, or even common decency, is not something that prevails on "social" media. While an extremely democratic forum, social media has also played a part in shutting down free speech because people are increasingly afraid to speak their mind for fear of the inevitable backlash.

But that is enough sermonising from me, instead I'll leave you with an exercise.

Ask yourself this: If you were sitting around with a group of people watching the Blues on Saturday night and someone happened to mention that the team appeared to be playing without passion and energy and you disagreed, in what world would it be okay to respond "f*** off you f***ing c***face"?

25 Feb, 2014 5:00am
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