The Musarurwa family from left, Lynn, Killian, Dean, Marshall, Emanuel and Maria. Photo / Supplied
The Musarurwa family from left, Lynn, Killian, Dean, Marshall, Emanuel and Maria. Photo / Supplied
Lunchboxes being packed and cornflakes placed on the table are among the loving gestures a father of four’s children are clinging to after his sudden death.
Killian Musarurwa moved to Whangārei from Zimbabwe less than six months ago, in pursuit of a better life.
The 45-year-old was drivingalong State Highway 14 to his work at Silver Fern Farms in Dargaville when that life was cut short on April 16.
Police knocked on Maria’s door around 6pm with the news that Killian had died.
Now, she and their children – 16-year-old twins Dean and Lynn, 10-year-old Marshall, and 5-year-old Emanuel – were grappling with the insurmountable loss.
From left, Killian, Lynn, Dean, Emanuel, Maria and Marshall. Photo / Supplied
Maria described her husband as a “lovely man” who wanted the very best for his family, providing what they all needed.
“It’s something they indicated that ‘Oh, we really miss the way he would say, “Have you finished bathing, now I’ve put your cornflakes on the table, you can come and eat’.
“You know, they really miss him,” she said. “At times it makes me want to cry.”
Maria was struggling without her husband, noting how she wouldn’t usually have to worry about anything in the mornings.
“And now that he’s not there, it’s something. You know?”
Maria, who works at BestStart Maunu, moved to New Zealand in July, and Killian joined in November with the children.
Maria hoped to return Killian to where his ancestors were buried, and where his family – including four siblings and his mother – were waiting.
“My number one worry when I got the news was, ‘Will I be able to take him back home?’, because it’s our culture that if someone passes on, they have to do the whole funeral and do body viewing,” she said.
Maria and Killian Musarurwa. Maria is now grappling with the loss of her husband. Photo / Supplied
Their four children would remain behind in New Zealand with a family friend while Maria took her husband home.
Maria was grateful for the African community and those in Maunu who had offered comfort and for BestStart who had been taking turns cooking food for her family.
She was grateful for donations as well.
“Words fail me.”
Maria was determined to continue their new life in New Zealand and fulfil her husband’s dream.
“He was someone who would want what’s best for [our] children, even me as well,” she said.
“He really wanted this life that we are having right now. So I will just stay here. God will make a way.”
Brodie Stone covers crime and emergency for the Northern Advocate. She has spent most of her life in Whangārei and is passionate about delving into issues that matter to Northlanders and beyond.