Ella Shepherd, 15, had a turn at digging a grave, though she admitted it wasn't her first attempt, after burying a few sheep and a donkey over the years.
She was surprised at how much clay there was and didn't envy sexton Wayne Tamanui's job. "I respect your career choice but I won't be following it," she told him as she handed back the shovel.
But besides narrowing down choices for her future, Ella left the family day out at the cemetery with another realisation - she wants to be buried in a mausoleum.
"If you're buried in a grave people can forget you but if you're in a mausoleum people have to look at you," she said.
"And if zombies exist, I want to be the leader and in a good spot to get out and I think I'd be set in a mausoleum."
And while Ella didn't rate the physical demands of being a sexton, Mr Tamanui loves it. He has been digging graves for 19 years and reckons he's dug more than 19,000.
Though about 90 per cent of the time they use diggers, sometimes plots are in a spot the machines can't get to and manual labour is needed.
But being a sexton isn't just about holes in the ground, it's also about supporting the bereaved during a difficult time.
Mr Tamanui said it could be a really rewarding job, if a little left of field.
"When I'm out at parties and people ask me what I do and I tell them I'm a sexton and they ask, 'What's that?' and I tell them and then I can't get away."