It is believed William and Harry's relationship has been strained since Meghan Markle entered the royal family. Photo / Getty Images
It is believed William and Harry's relationship has been strained since Meghan Markle entered the royal family. Photo / Getty Images
Holding umbrellas aloft to guard against an unseasonal shower, Princes William and Harry seemed lost in thought as they toured the new "white garden" at Kensington Palace, specially created to commemorate their late mother, the Princess of Wales.
They were in no hurry. It was August 2017, the 20th anniversary of her death and, ignoring the downpour, the brothers moved around slowly, accompanied by the Duchess of Cambridge, William's wife. This particular spot, amid the sunken gardens at the palace, had been a favourite of Diana's. After meticulous planning by the head gardener, Sean Harkin, all 1200 of the plants there were blooming with white or cream-coloured flowers, including roses, in her memory.
Aside from the sunshine, there was only one thing missing from the scene – the new statue of Diana announced a few months earlier.
The brothers were hoping it would prove a lasting tribute to their mother's humanitarian work and "allow all those who visit Kensington Palace to remember and celebrate her life and legacy". And before the year was out, the distinguished sculptor Ian Rank-Broadley – whose portrait of the Queen adorns our coins – had accepted the commission.
A special statue of Diana has never been completed. Photo / Getty Images
This carefully measured celebration of the anniversary, the delightful new garden and the planned statue, seemed to mark a new phase for the two young men, a turning point, they hoped, as they came to terms with her death and their loss. The mood was purposeful and united.
Yet how different things seem today. Many thousands of miles now separate William from Harry and his younger brother's glitzy new life in Los Angeles. The emotional gap between them is greater still, at least for now.
Tensions between the brothers and their wives were noted at Harry and Meghan's final official royal engagement. Photo / Getty Images
Since Harry's dramatic bid for "freedom", quitting his Royal duties to move to California with his wife Meghan and their infant son Archie, relations between the brothers have soured.
Harry has commented that they are on "different paths", ostensibly referring to William as a future King. This, though, this is putting things politely. The truth is that they barely speak.
There is much more at stake than a sunken garden or a lump of stone.
Back in 2017, the princes were living and working together closely.
William and Harry shared both home and offices at Kensington Palace, they were unified in their charitable endeavours and it was in this context that they took the bold decision to make an emotional television documentary about their mother.
It would have been unusual in any circumstances, but Diana: Our Mother, Her Life And Legacy was made all the more remarkable by the refreshing candour with which the two young men opened up about their loss. "I remember just feeling completely numb, disorientated," William told the documentary.
Diana with her sons, William and Harry, in 1989. Photo / Getty Images
Remembering his mother in the tenderest of terms, Harry said: "Of course as a son I would say this, she was the best mum in the world. She would just engulf you and squeeze you as tight as possible.
"And being as short as I was then, there was no escape, you were there and you were there for as long as she wanted to hold you."
The documentary was a brave departure – so much so that William admitted he had been unsure as to whether or not such an intimate portrayal of his mother had been wise.
Half-jokingly, he said he hoped the brothers would not live to regret it.
"Not only is this the first time we've spoken so openly and at length about our mother," he said, "it is also the last time."
And so it has proved – on his part at least. Yet if for William such an emotive subject is best touched on sparingly – if at all – his younger brother is taking a very different approach.
For Harry, the documentary was not the final word, in fact, but the start of a series of increasingly frank recollections about his mother, her death in August 1997 and the way in which he has struggled to cope ever since.
Last year, while on tour in South Africa with his wife and child, Harry told an ITV documentary that Diana's death was a "wound that festers".
"She would just engulf you and squeeze you as tight as possible," Harry has said of his mother, Diana. Photo / Getty Images
Speaking about his own work in Africa, he said: "Being here now, 22 years later, trying to finish what she started will be incredibly emotional but everything I do reminds me of her."
We should be braced for more such outpourings.
At a lucrative speaking engagement in Florida in February, one of the first in his new independent role, Harry reportedly told bankers that he had "been in therapy for the past three years to try to overcome the trauma of losing his mother".
Three years, intriguingly, was the amount of time that had elapsed since the 20th anniversary of his mother's death.
According to a newspaper report of the event, a conference sponsored by investment bank JP Morgan, "Harry also touched on Megxit, saying while it has been very difficult on him and Meghan, he does not regret their decision to step down as senior Royals because he wants to protect his family. He does not want Meghan and their son Archie to go through what he did as a child."
This might not be how he intends to continue of course, but now that Harry and his American wife have relinquished their Royal duties and need to earn money, the prince may find he has no choice but to carry on in this vein.
As he seeks his fortune in America, where the memory of Diana is lauded, and where Harry will forever be known as her son, the pressure to speak about her will be huge.
American audiences are known to have an insatiable appetite for recollections of his mother – and little else – when it comes to the British Royal Family.
This year Harry stood down from senior royal duties and signed on to a glitzy Hollywood life with Meghan in LA. Photo / Getty Images
Much has changed for Harry in the past three years. Now married with a child and living in Los Angeles, the late-night burgers and sofa-surfing are over. But marriage seems to have done nothing to calm the unresolved feelings about Diana's death. If anything, he seems further away from making peace with the trauma of his past. And he could be forgiven as he approaches his 36th birthday in September – the age his mother was when she died – if she is always present in his mind.
The years have also brought a growing rift with his older brother and wider Windsor family.
Tensions were apparent even in the run-up to Harry's wedding two years ago, not least in a row over which tiara Meghan might be permitted to wear on the big day.
This disagreement reportedly set the couple at odds with more senior Royals. A furious Harry had told staff that "what Meghan wants, Meghan gets" after she was refused the option of wearing a particular emerald tiara. The Queen, his grandmother, personally intervened to call Harry and offer Meghan a Queen Mary tiara instead.
