The work Christmas do can be a minefield of alcohol-fuelled wit, drunken proposals, chronic boredom and stuffing yourself silly.

But you can survive this silly season, having a blast without destroying your dignity. Employment expert, Tom O'Neil, shared his best tips with the NZ Herald Online in this story. To follow that up, he is joining us for a live chat online so you can ask your own curly questions and share horror stories.

O'Neil will be online from 12pm to 1pm. Start sending in your questions in the chat box below.