DiSesa encourages women "to stroke men's egos with flattery and manipulation in order to succeed in a male-dominated environment such as Merrill Lynch", the suit states.
Miss DiSesa, who began her career in New York advertising in 1973, said that she was "very surprised" to learn that her book was part of a discrimination case. "This book was a light-hearted, humorous memoir, not a how-to guide, about my experiences in my career," she said. "The goal was to empower women not make them feel subservient.
"The truth is that in a male-dominated environment, I found that it helps to stroke men's egos and we as women can manipulate that to our advantage."
A federal court rejected a similar lawsuit in January, but the women's lawyers have now filed the claim at state level where discrimination laws are broader. The women have declined to comment.
A Merrill Lynch spokesman said: "These claims have been already considered by a federal judge and rejected. Diversity and inclusivity are part of our culture and core values."