The court also heard that the couple had previously been convicted of sexually abusing two of the victim's sisters.
The jury quickly returned their verdict, finding Withnell guilty of having carnal knowledge of a girl and indecently dealing with a child.
His ex-wife was guilty only of the carnal knowledge offence. She was acquitted of indecent dealing relating to a separate incident where the victim alleged she was inappropriately touched in the bath when she was 5.
The pair will be sentenced next year.
SEXUAL HARM - DO YOU NEED HELP?
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone contact Safe to Talk confidentially:
• Call 0800 044 334
• Text 4334
• Email support@safetotalk.nz
• For more info or to web chat visit www.safetotalk.nz
Alternatively contact your local police station -
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