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'Hands tied by the law': Father's desperate attempts to intervene before ex-partner killed their children

By Stefanie Dazio
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14 Apr, 2021 01:10 AM5 mins to read

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Liliana Carrillo. Photo / AP

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US father Erik Denton was supposed to see his three young children last Sunday, the one day every other week that he was allowed to be with them.

Three-year-old Joanna, her 2-year-old brother, Terry, and 6-month-old sister, Sierra, had been staying with their mother — Denton's ex-girlfriend — in Los Angeles.

Fearful for their safety, their father had petitioned the court for custody on March 1, alleging their mother, Liliana Carrillo, was delusional and had taken the kids and refused to tell him where they were.

Carrillo, in turn, filed a restraining order against him and claimed Denton was an alcoholic who may have sexually abused their eldest child.

As the case wound through family courts in Tulare and Los Angeles counties, the parents traded accusations in dozens of pages of documents. Police were called, social workers were consulted, alarming text messages and Facebook posts were saved as legal exhibits.

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A week ago, a Los Angeles judge agreed to move the case to Tulare County, where a hearing was scheduled for Wednesday.

It would be too late.

Photos, candles, flowers and balloons at a memorial for three children who were killed at the Royal Villa apartments complex in the Reseda section of Los Angeles. Photo / AP
Photos, candles, flowers and balloons at a memorial for three children who were killed at the Royal Villa apartments complex in the Reseda section of Los Angeles. Photo / AP

The children were found dead on Saturday (Sunday NZT) by their maternal grandmother in her Los Angeles apartment. Carrillo was their suspected killer and was arrested in Tulare County, nearly 322 kilometres north of the scene.

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LA detectives are seeking her extradition as the coroner's office conducts autopsies on the children.

Captain Chris Waters, who oversees the LAPD's Juvenile Division, said the investigation is ongoing. She offered her condolences and said the deaths were particularly tragic during National Child Abuse Prevention Month.

Denton, as well as attorneys who had represented Carrillo and Denton in their custody case, did not return requests for comment on Tuesday.

A memorial of photographs, candles, flowers and balloons paid tribute to the siblings as their father struggled to understand why his daughters and son had been left in their mother's care despite multiple red flags.

Los Angeles Police investigate the scene of a homicide where three young children were found slain on April 10. Photo / AP
Los Angeles Police investigate the scene of a homicide where three young children were found slain on April 10. Photo / AP

"I am afraid for my children's physical and mental wellbeing," Denton had written in court papers.

The Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services, the largest child protective services agency in the nation, was involved in the case. In a statement, the department declined to comment on its role but said it "joins the community in mourning".

"Erik's hands were tied by the law," said Dr Teri Miller, a Los Angeles emergency room physician who is Denton's cousin and helped him try to get custody of the kids. She told The Los Angeles Times: "He jumped through every hoop placed in front of him to get the kids back safely."

Denton's court filings tell of Carrillo's post-partum depression following the birth of their middle child. She began therapy but quit. She self-medicated with marijuana, he claimed. In texts and social media posts, she said things like "I wish I never had kids" and threatened to kill herself.

Carrillo also believed she was "solely responsible" for the coronavirus pandemic, Denton wrote, and she thought that Porterville, the Tulare County city where he, Carrillo and the children had lived, was home to a "giant sex trafficking ring".

Tributes to Joanna, 3, Terry, 2, and 6-month-old Sierra Denton. Photo / AP
Tributes to Joanna, 3, Terry, 2, and 6-month-old Sierra Denton. Photo / AP

In late February, her behaviour worsened, court documents show. During an outing at the park, their oldest daughter had fallen and landed on her groin area and later said it hurt.

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Carrillo believed the pain was from Denton molesting her, a claim he denied. He said she was checked by a doctor who found no evidence of abuse; Carrillo said the examination wasn't thorough enough.

On February 25, Carrillo allegedly tried to leave their home with the kids in the middle of the night. Denton called police, and Carrillo did not believe the responding officer was really a member of the police department. She threatened to take the kids to Mexico, where she has family.

The next day, a social worker contacted Denton and said she was worried about Carrillo's mental state. She urged him to seek a court intervention, and Denton filed custody paperwork in Tulare County on March 1.

"I am very concerned about my partner," Denton wrote, "and want to get her the help she needs to recover from this mental break and to become stable. I want her interactions with the children to be safe and healthy."

Carrillo sought a temporary restraining order 12 days later in LA County. Through the courts, Denton and Carrillo agreed to swap Denton's days to see the children — a few hours every other Sunday.

Last Sunday was supposed to be just his second visit with the kids under the new schedule.

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Instead, he spent it in grief.

DO YOU NEED HELP?

If you're in danger now:

• Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours of friends to ring for you.
• Run outside and head for where there are other people.
• Scream for help so that your neighbours can hear you.
• Take the children with you.
• Don't stop to get anything else.
• If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay

Where to go for help or more information:

• Shine, free national helpline 9am- 11pm every day - 0508 744 633 www.2shine.org.nz
• Women's Refuge: Free national crisis line operates 24/7 - 0800 refuge or 0800 733 843 www.womensrefuge.org.nz
• Shakti: Providing specialist cultural services for African, Asian and middle eastern women and their children. Crisis line 24/7 0800 742 584
• It's Not OK: Information line 0800 456 450 www.areyouok.org.nz

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