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Eight drivers, five days: A migrant's emotional journey to find her daughter

By Marissa Lang, Arelis Hernández
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11 Jul, 2018 11:25 PM6 mins to read

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Yeni Gonzalez with Congressman Adriano Espaillat, D, just after seeing her children in a New York facility for the first time since mid-May. Photo / AP

Yeni Gonzalez with Congressman Adriano Espaillat, D, just after seeing her children in a New York facility for the first time since mid-May. Photo / AP

She was on the road for days, crying and praying and recounting her story to kind strangers who offered to drive and house and feed her.

Freed from an immigrant detention centre in Arizona, she traveled nearly 4830km to New York - the place US officials had taken her daughter.

Juana, a Guatemalan immigrant who crossed the border at a port of entry in Arizona hoping to seek asylum, refused to stop for meals. She spent nights in the homes of well-meaning American families.

Each night a different city. Each morning a different car.

Juana, whose lawyer asked that her last name be withheld for fear that identifying her could jeopardise her and her daughter's legal case, was the beneficiary of a growing legion of volunteers who have offered up their cars, homes, food and clothing to aid migrant parents separated from their children as a result of the Trump Administration's "zero tolerance" immigration policy.

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In just two weeks, this loosely organised network of citizens has helped reunite nearly a dozen separated families, in some cases connecting them with housing, lawyers and other services they may need.

They call their coalition "Immigrant Families Together."

"It's empowering to think how much we're getting done," said Meghan Finn, a theater director and mother-of-two from Brooklyn who has helped lead the effort. "We've changed the course for these families and we've connected thousands of people across the country who have stepped up to help and formed this huge community."

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The Government is under court order to return more than 2500 separated children to their parents by July 26. A total of 102 migrant children under the age of 5 were supposed to be reunited with their relatives by yesterday, although the Government said it could return only 38 by that deadline. The Department of Justice must update US District Court Judge Dana Sabraw on the effort by tomorrow.

In most cases, the Government has been releasing parents from detention and children from federal shelters, then transporting them to a meeting place to be reunited. The parents are usually given ankle monitoring devices and told they are free to go, but must report back for immigration or deportation hearings.

Immigrant Families Together is trying to speed the process by identifying parents who can be freed from custody, paying their bonds if necessary, then coordinating caravans to move the parents across state lines to where their children are being held.

Yeni Gonzalez, a Guatemalan mother who was separated from her three children, is embraced by volunteer Janey Pearl of Arizona. Photo / AP
Yeni Gonzalez, a Guatemalan mother who was separated from her three children, is embraced by volunteer Janey Pearl of Arizona. Photo / AP

Their first success was Yeni Gonzalez, whose story and tearful reunion with her three children in New York made national news last week.

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Juana's journey began on Saturday, after an online fundraiser collected enough to post her US$15,000 bond at Eloy Detention Centre in Arizona and get her on her way.

Unlike Gonzalez, she had already been cleared to claim her daughter. All she needed was to get to Cayuga Centres, the shelter in Harlem that also is responsible for Gonzalez's children.

As of today, three more mothers from Eloy were waiting to be picked up and taken to their kids. One was headed to Georgia. Another needed to get to Texas. The third would also be making the journey to New York City.

They would spend their nights in the homes of volunteers like Bill O'Brien, a resident of northern Detroit, who took in two Honduran fathers yesterday after they were reunited with their 3-year-old sons.

Ever Reyes Mejia, 30, and another father, also in his 30s, arrived at O'Brien's home with only their children and the clothes on their backs. He gave them clothes and toys and food that was bought and donated by members of O'Brien's church and community.

Ever Reyes Mejia is reunited with his 3-year-old son in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Photo / AP
Ever Reyes Mejia is reunited with his 3-year-old son in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Photo / AP

It's not just individuals.

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Companies like Lyft have partnered with nonprofits to offer free rides to migrant families and advocates. Cayuga Centres collected hundreds of toys from donations via an Amazon wish list.

Rosalie Lochner, a philosophy professor turned stay-at-home-mother, has spent the last week at the marble-slab table in her Detroit kitchen, cold-calling anyone she could think of to build a database of people willing to donate frequent flyer miles, toys, clothes, food and more. She said she's received more offers than she knows what to do with.

"I, as a citizen, feel like I am responsible for this policy and am responsible for helping in some small way to change it," she said.

Juana's journey included a total of eight drivers over five days. They took her from Arizona to New Mexico to Colorado to Nebraska to Illinois to Michigan, where she settled into a minivan driven by Mira Sussman, a mother-of-three from Ann Arbor.

They spent five hours driving to Pittsburgh, Sussman said. She drove most of the way a few kilometres an hour under the speed limit - just in case.

"I was terrified we would be pulled over in a regular traffic stop and they would find her and take her away again and she'd never make it to New York to see her kid," Sussman said. "I was being so careful."

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Juana, exhausted, crawled into the back seat of the minivan, held her Bible to her chest, and slept.

She woke in Ohio, Sussman said, and talked about what she had gone through, how she and her daughter, who is 15, would carry this experience with them for the rest of their lives. She used the word trauma, which sounds the same in Spanish as it does in English. Sussman said her Spanish "isn't very good," but she understood.

"I told her she has so many friends across the US now who care about her and her family and their well being," Sussman said. "I'm glad we have the opportunity to show her that there are people with morals and courage in this country, but it's just disgusting that we have to do this at all."

Yesterday, after travelling from Pittsburgh to Newark, New Jersey, Juana got into one last car for the drive into New York City. She met her daughter at the shelter and hugged her for the first time in weeks.

A volunteer sent a message to a group text that included eight of the volunteers who helped Juana get there: drivers, organizers, translators, people who offered Juana a place to spend the night.

"Got her," it said.

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The recipients responded joyfully, sending each other congratulations and emoji of big red hearts.

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