Does that mean men and women should not be judged against each other or should they be rated on how dominant their performances are compared to colleagues and rivals?
My hunch is that unless the judging panel changes and a Black Fern shows some Lomu-like dominance through-out a season, the Kelvin Tremain award will always go to an All Black.
Four males and Farah Palmer are on the panel this year and while they have shown their appreciation of Cocksedge's qualities in the nation's top female side, I can't see their judgment singling her out as the nation's player of the year.
Not because of the shockwaves that decision would send through the ceremony audience at the Sky City Auckland Convention Centre, those watching on television and others wanting to engage in public discussions but because Taylor's work was on a different level.
A better debate might be how Cocksedge's work at halfback throughout 2018 compared to the production from Aaron Smith, TJ Perenara and Te Toiroa Tahuriorangi who played All Black tests this year.
Clearly the same judges have assessed her contributions were better than the All Black trio and that her influence on her side and results was more pronounced than her male counterparts.
Not too many would quibble with that verdict. Smith's game wavered in calibre and content throughout the year, Perenara was better but his passing remains a work in progress while we need to see more of Tahuriorangi to get a better gauge.