When James Tamou looks at himself in the mirror, deep down, he's got tattoos, he says "bro" - he's a Kiwi. But again it comes down to who you are and how you've been brought up.
NSW and Queensland have coaches who concentrate on only one team for the whole year and they go out and look for players who fit their needs. Over the last six months we've seen how proactive they are in targeting Kiwi players.
NSW needed props so they went out and got Tamou. Jason Taumalolo was highlighted as the best young talent in the game and before you know it you've got Mal Meninga flying up to Townsville to visit his family. It's a different ballgame now.
The NZRL needs to be proactive and maybe it can look at increasing player payments, but our best bet still remains getting kids into our system through the Junior Kiwis and roots camps. Once our young players are in that system most realise the importance of that brotherhood and where they really belong. They realise who they really are.
I've heard some people say we had the chance to pick players like Tamou, Sam Kasiano and Taumalolo and we haven't, so tough luck if they then choose to play Origin.
But there are players who work their butts off over long periods of time to get in the Kiwis team. We can't just select somebody because we think they are an up-and-coming player just to keep the Aussie states at bay.
That's a silly proposition. Players work themselves into contention and when they get selected they should be worthy of it, not be there just because we think we should keep them. That's pathetic. Again, it goes back to values and how we operate. You won't get picked because we think you'll be great in a year or two. But, if you want it, you'll be striving to do your best to get there.
Kasiano and Taumalolo are very, very talented young men and given time they will make it. There is no question about that. There is still one more test to come this year and, who knows, they may even play in that. But if they are picked it will be because they are worthy of selection and they really want to be there.