That is up to Ryder now, for he is not New Zealand Cricket's problem any longer. The national body have done all they can for the troubled batsman - they've tried tough love, they've tried a caring arm around the shoulder, they've given him access to all the support he needs. But after making all the right noises and offering all the necessary platitudes to secure his place back in the national team after a 22-month break, it did not take long for Ryder's focus to fade and murmurings of misbehaviour to begin.
You can only be let down by someone so many times before you wash your hands of them. It is clear from the strong statements made yesterday by NZC's Lindsay Crocker that the management has reached that point. Crocker said Ryder was unmanageable in the team environment and can no longer be trusted.
The most telling thing, though, is when you lose the support of your peers. The team reportedly do not want Ryder around and even his staunchest supporter, long-time manager Aaron Klee, has walked away.
As for Doug Bracewell, we must be careful not to lump him in the same bracket as Ryder. His issue seems to be that he is a recidivist idiot rather than someone battling a serious addiction.
Unlike Ryder, there is still hope for Bracewell, but this incident will need to be a wake-up call for the 23-year-old.