He and Bertha married at the Fairburn Church in 1938, raising two children, Heather and Donald.
In 1942 Tom joined the Mounted Rifles in the Home Guard, and it was in that connection that he was last in the news, having shared his memories with Heritage New Zealand Pouhere Taonga, which had begun researching some of the places and personalities associated with World War II defences in the North (Hunting down Home Guard's history, Northland Age, April 19).
He was based at Peria, but was often off an horseback treks for two to three days at a time, travelling as far afield as Kawakawa, Ōkaihau and Kāeo, leaving Bertha to milk the cows, with his father helping.
His duties included manning an observation post on the Taipa estuary, keeping watch for the enemy.
"Many a night was spent in the bush, relaying messages from Kaitāia to Kāeo," he said, although one time he and a mate borrowed a dinghy from Jim Taylor, who lived near the bridge, and caught 18 snapper off the cockle beds.
Meanwhile, in 1944 he and Bertha bought 72ha at Fairburn, where they milked cows, kept hens and maintained a great garden and orchard.
They were active members of the Fairburn community, joining in church and hall functions, bowls, cards, table tennis and dances. Bertha was a member of Fairburn CWI, and for many years competed in the indoor section of the Mangōnui County A&P show, winning prizes with her needlework, baking, preserves and garden produce.
In 1977 they sold the farm and retired to Kaitāia, but Tom kept a few acres at Fairburn, grazing a few cattle and maintaining his garden.
The couple celebrated their golden wedding with family and friends at the Fairburn Church Hall on June 22, 1988.