NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / New Zealand

Flaxmere community joins in karakia for slain man Kelly Donner

By Astrid Austin
Hawkes Bay Today·
7 Mar, 2018 06:51 PM4 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

About 200 people gathered in Flaxmere to say karakia for Kelly Donner who was killed by Hanara in February last year. Video / Duncan Brown

"Ka hohotu tonu nei te manawa."

"The hearts of paharakeke will continue to pulsate."

Tears were shed and candles were lit as residents remembered a man who was not only known by many, but loved by those who came across him.

About 200 people gathered last night in Flaxmere for a blessing ceremony for Kelly Donner, who died outside the Flaxmere Tavern on Sunday night after an attack.

Read more: Hundreds gather at scene of Flaxmere tragedy
Police review CCTV footage in Flaxmere death investigation
Flaxmere community rallies after homicide
Flaxmere community urged to attend karakia for slain man

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Most people in the crowd were dressed in black and were not deterred by the rain as night fell.

Jeremy McLeod and Thompson Hokianga performing the blessing ceremony where Kelly Alex Donner was found dead on Sunday. Photo / Duncan Brown.
Jeremy McLeod and Thompson Hokianga performing the blessing ceremony where Kelly Alex Donner was found dead on Sunday. Photo / Duncan Brown.

Jeremy McLeod, Thompson Hokianga and Flaxmere resident and Hastings district councillor Henare O'Keefe led the ceremony.

Police yesterday afternoon named the dead man as Kelly Alex Donner, 40, from Opotiki.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

It is believed he worked at Crasborn Group on Omahu Rd, Hastings, and also volunteered at New World helping to return trolleys.

Jocelyn Peachey remembers a 17-year-old Kelly in his signature baggy blue jeans.

They met in the 80s at the Gisborne Health Camp and rekindled their relationship several years later.

"We were both young, I think it was about three, maybe four months, but our history goes back to our younger days."
Peachey found out about Donner's death through social media yesterday, having lost all contact with him.

Discover more

New Zealand|crime

Flaxmere killing described as 'merciless'

09 Mar 04:02 AM
New Zealand

Four teenagers appear in court over death of Kelly Donner in Flaxmere

15 Mar 09:31 PM
New Zealand|politics

Candidate claims voters denied access to booths

24 Oct 04:00 PM

"It just hurts. We never really got a chance to have a relationship because of our ages and our situations at that time."

Nolan Taitapanui, outside New World Flaxmere, was a friend of Kelly Donner. Photo / Duncan Brown.
Nolan Taitapanui, outside New World Flaxmere, was a friend of Kelly Donner. Photo / Duncan Brown.

Local resident Nolan Taitapanui said Donner was like a brother to him.

"He was a good mate of mine and I am very pissed off what has happened to him."

Another woman, who did not wish to be named, said although she didn't know Donner personally, she had heard that he was a very gentle and humble man.

"He would never pass by without saying 'hello'."

A Flaxmere man, who knew Donner well, remembered him fondly.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"He was still like a friend to me. He was just an ordinary person. We would chat on a daily basis in passing and ask how each other's day was going."

On Sunday night, as the man was leaving his job for the evening, a woman ran to him screaming, and asked him to follow her to where his friend lay.

"I knew who he was straight away. It is so raw and it is only early days.

"It sort of freaked me out, I have never been in a situation in my security career to witness an event like this.

"I do security so I am trying to help keep our community safe. This is my community, I have kids that live here and I am trying to keep this place safe for our future."

Manager of Flaxmere's St Vincent de Paul, George David, remembers assisting Kelly Donner with food parcels. Photo / Warren Buckland.
Manager of Flaxmere's St Vincent de Paul, George David, remembers assisting Kelly Donner with food parcels. Photo / Warren Buckland.

St Vincent De Paul second-hand shop manager George David said the violent death was too close to home.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I just don't understand why anyone would have hurt him. It just doesn't make sense."

David would often arrange food parcels for Donner when he needed them - the first time being in 2014 when his two daughters were going to stay with him during the school holidays.

"I was shocked to hear what happened to him. I just spoke with him last week. He was walking through with somebody and still had the time to say hello as he walked past."

He remembers him being a "little bit of a nomad, but a lovely, friendly guy".

Despite having had a rental property in the community in 2012 and 2013, it is believed Donner slept rough, sometimes at the nearby park - although it is not known when this started happening.

A local woman who did not wish to be named had fond memories of Donner and was "shocked" to hear of his tragic death.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I never knew his name. I only knew him for the past two months and he was a primo guy."

Whenever she would see him, she would shout out "bro" and he would affectionately reply with "sis".

"He was a good guy to talk to. It is awful."

A local resident said it was certainly a shock.

"No one deserves to go like that."

The resident remembered seeing Donner around New World and said he seemed like a nice guy.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

A community meeting will be held at the Flaxmere Community Centre at 7pm today and O'Keefe said all are welcome.

Ka Mate, Ka Mate, Ka ora, Ka ora.

"To live, to live, to die, to die."

Save

    Share this article

Latest from New Zealand

New Zealand

Bid to reopen bar closed for months divides community

18 Jun 09:33 PM
OpinionUpdated

NZ Herald comments: The stories open for discussion today

18 Jun 09:04 PM
Education

'Harmful': Co-ed schools urge NZ Rugby to block exclusive boys’ first XV comp

18 Jun 08:33 PM

Jono and Ben brew up a tea-fuelled adventure in Sri Lanka

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from New Zealand

Bid to reopen bar closed for months divides community

Bid to reopen bar closed for months divides community

18 Jun 09:33 PM

The aspiring new owners say they have 30 years' experience in hospitality.

NZ Herald comments: The stories open for discussion today

NZ Herald comments: The stories open for discussion today

18 Jun 09:04 PM
'Harmful': Co-ed schools urge NZ Rugby to block exclusive boys’ first XV comp

'Harmful': Co-ed schools urge NZ Rugby to block exclusive boys’ first XV comp

18 Jun 08:33 PM
How to make the perfect Matariki hāngī

How to make the perfect Matariki hāngī

Help for those helping hardest-hit
sponsored

Help for those helping hardest-hit

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP