A gay bar where men sexually harass women. Sounds like a paradox, doesn't it? Instead, it's the reality at Auckland's Family Bar.

If you've never been to Family, you've missed out. The iconic nightclub hosts drag shows, karaoke nights and some of the best dance parties in town. It also is now home to a group of handsy heterosexual men preying on women who, by sexual orientation or by choice of venue for their night out, have little interest in male attention.

Why are straight women flocking to a gay bar in the first place, you might ask? Setting