The Duchess of Cambridge's brother, James Middleton, has revealed his private battle with depression in an astonishingly honest column for the Daily Mail.

Detailing the illness he calls "a cancer of the mind", Middleton shares his journey, how he hid his condition from his family and friends but has finally decided to speak up. In part he says he has been inspired by his sister, Kate, and brother-in-law, Prince William's mental health charity, Heads Together.

The seemingly quiet member of the Middleton family writes of how "sleep eluded me" and how getting to work and home again was almost impossible:

"During the day I'd drag myself up and go to work, then just stare with glazed eyes at my computer screen, willing the hours to tick by so I could drive home again."


He shares that things became so difficult he couldn't communicate, even with family and friends.

Acknowledging his "privileged life", he explains his position did not make him "immune to depression."

The 31-year-old goes on to write about the disease as "an absence of feelings ... only heart-thudding anxiety propelled me out of bed in the morning."

It's been just over a year since Middleton says he experienced "a progressive deterioration" and decided he needed to escape. So without telling anyone he packed his dogs into his car and drove to a remote area he has "loved since I was a child".

There he says he existed in total solitude, "eating from packets and trying to still the tumult in my mind."

Days earlier, Middleton says he'd accepted he was no longer able to cope with his condition and needed help.

"And this recognition led to a sort of calm: I knew if I accepted help there would be hope. It was a tiny spark of light in the darkness," he writes.

He reveals he eventually allowed his GP to discuss his condition with his worried family, feeling he couldn't explain things in an objective way himself.

A year on, getting help has led him to work out coping strategies and while he would "never say I am cured of it" feels a "zest for life".

Middleton, who has recently been photographed with a new girlfriend holidaying in St Baths, says he eventually enjoyed going to therapy and always took along one of his five dogs for support.

In addition to sharing his battle with clinical depression, Middleton's column travels back to his childhood, his learning disabilities and the impact that had on his self-esteem growing up.

He has since been diagnosed with ADD and has begun to embrace his "impulsiveness" and "energy" as he's realised how they can be utilised positively with his "creative and individual mind"

He ends his article telling readers, "If I could leave you with just one thought, it would be this: 'It's okay not to be okay.'"

Read his full column here.


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