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How to stop drinking: Step-by-step guide to giving up alcohol

By Nick Harding
Daily Telegraph UK·
30 May, 2024 10:12 PM7 mins to read

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Thinking of quitting alcohol? Cutting it off right away might seem like a good idea, but it may be dangerous due to the potential for severe withdrawal symptoms. Photo / 123rf

Thinking of quitting alcohol? Cutting it off right away might seem like a good idea, but it may be dangerous due to the potential for severe withdrawal symptoms. Photo / 123rf

If you’ve decided it’s time to change your relationship with alcohol, here’s what you need to know about dependency and withdrawal

If your drinking is having a negative effect on your life, it’s hardly surprising if it’s taken some time for you to decide to do anything about it.

“Alcohol is a social lubricant and is embedded in our society,” says Sally Marlow, a professor of practice in the public understanding of mental health research at King’s College, London. “Many people have some of the best times of their lives when they are consuming alcohol. But in order to accept this we also need to be aware of the harms it can cause. Dependence is when your alcohol intake becomes so normalised that your body can’t function without it.”

For those who’ve decided it’s time to quit, there are rising numbers making that same decision. Here is how to do it safely.

Understanding alcohol dependence

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The most affected group for alcohol dependence is people in their 40s, 50s and 60s who have had several decades of drinking to build tolerance and dependence.

How to tell if you might be alcohol dependent:

  • You find it difficult to stop drinking temporarily.
  • “If you’re asking yourself, have I got a problem with alcohol? The answer is probably yes,” says Prof Marlow.
  • You need to consume more or stronger drinks to achieve the same effects.
  • The problems created by your consumption outweigh any social benefits that you get from alcohol.
  • You are unable to do your job properly because of drinking or you lost a job due to drinking.
  • You spend more money on drinks than you can afford.
  • You feel that alcohol has control over you.
  • You develop poor impulse control. “Every neuron in your brain comes into contact with alcohol and your brain drives your behaviour,” explains Prof Marlow.
  • You look for excuses to go out drinking and spend time with people you don’t like because they will drink with you.
  • Your sleep is regularly disrupted, and you are irritable.
  • Friends or loved ones advise you to reduce your consumption.
Alcohol dependence is most common in people aged 40 to 60. Photo / 123rf
Alcohol dependence is most common in people aged 40 to 60. Photo / 123rf

Types of dependence

David Nutt, a professor of neuropsychopharmacology and the director of the neuropsychopharmacology unit at Imperial College, London, explains that people who drink to achieve a psychological “buzz” can become dependent quickly, while people who drink to deal with everyday stress will build tolerance more slowly.

“When they stop drinking and go to work, they have a hangover and more anxiety. And that will make the work [stress] worse, so they’ll drink more in the evenings, which starts the vicious cycle of dependence,” he says. “A lot of people don’t even realise they’re dependent and don’t seek help until they develop a physical problem.”

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Understanding withdrawal

Dependent drinkers who stop drinking may experience withdrawal symptoms which range from cravings and headaches, to seizures, hallucinations and delirium, depending on the level of dependency.

Prof Marlow explains: “Alcohol disrupts neurotransmitters. If you’ve been a heavy drinker for several years, it’s as if you’ve put a squeeze on the electrical activity in your brain. If you take the drinking away, your neurological processes are like a coiled spring with masses of electrical activity and that’s why the medical advice for heavily dependent people is not to go cold turkey without medical assistance, because you can end up fitting [ie, having alcohol withdrawal seizures] and it can be fatal.”

A 2008 paper published in the journal Alcohol Research and Health describes the processes behind dependence, withdrawal and relapse.

“In general, alcohol acts to suppress central nervous system (CNS) activity, and, as with other CNS depressants, withdrawal symptoms associated with cessation of chronic alcohol use are opposite in nature to the effects of intoxication.”

It lists typical features of alcohol withdrawal as:

  • Signs of heightened autonomic nervous system activation, such as rapid heartbeat, elevated blood pressure, excessive sweating and shaking (tremor).
  • Excessive activity of the CNS that may culminate in motor seizures (jerking and stiffening of muscles) and /or hallucinations and delirium tremens (the rapid onset of confusion) in the most severe form of withdrawal.
  • A state of distress and psychological discomfort which can include irritability, agitation, anxiety and dysphoria, as well as sleep disturbances and a sense of inability to experience pleasure.

Prof Nutt explains that someone drinking two units of alcohol a day would experience minor withdrawal symptoms such as disturbed sleep and anxiety, so for them quitting would be easier than for someone with greater tolerance who would experience more severe withdrawal symptoms.

Medical advice is crucial for heavily dependent drinkers to safely quit alcohol. Photo / 123rf
Medical advice is crucial for heavily dependent drinkers to safely quit alcohol. Photo / 123rf

Preparation for quitting alcohol

Depending on the level of dependence, Prof Marlow advises starting by accessing information from organisations which support mindful drinking.

People with higher dependence should contact their GP who can offer advice and a referral, should medical help be required.

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Alcoholics Anonymous holds open meetings, so attending one could be your first step.

Prof Marlow advises taking time off from work as sick leave or holiday. “It is an illness and withdrawal is a period of ill health,” she explains. “You will come out the other end but need to look after yourself.”

It is a good idea to stock up on alcohol-free alternatives for any social events where cravings for alcohol might be triggered. For example, Sentia GABA spirit is a mood-enhancing drink which uses plant-based ingredients that have been scientifically proven to activate “GABA” in the brain, which is the neurotransmitter responsible for sensations of sociability.

What are the best methods to stop drinking?

If you’re dependent on alcohol to function, it’s recommended you seek medical advice to manage your withdrawal.

Some people may be prescribed medication to help achieve abstinence. You may also choose to attend self-help groups, receive extended counselling, work with a coach who specialises in alcohol addiction or use a talking therapy such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). There are also private rehab services available.

Everyone is different, and different pathways work for different people depending on a range of factors, including level of dependency, environment, access to services and personal relationships.

Heavy drinkers should avoid quitting "cold turkey" due to severe withdrawal risks. Photo / 123rf
Heavy drinkers should avoid quitting "cold turkey" due to severe withdrawal risks. Photo / 123rf

Dealing with withdrawal symptoms

When you stop consuming alcohol your body goes through a period of detoxification, which is when the withdrawal symptoms are at their most acute. How and where you attempt detoxification will be determined by your level of alcohol dependency. In mild cases, you should be able to detox at home without the use of medication as your withdrawal symptoms should also be mild. Always seek professional advice before attempting to give up alcohol if you are alcohol-dependent.

If your consumption of alcohol is high (more than 20 units per day) or you’ve previously experienced withdrawal symptoms, you may also be able to detox at home with medication under the supervision of a healthcare professional. A tranquiliser called chlordiazepoxide is usually used for this purpose.

If your dependency is severe, you may need to go to a hospital or clinic to detox.

Your withdrawal symptoms will be at their worst for the first 48 hours. They should gradually start to improve as your body begins to adjust to being without alcohol. This usually takes three to seven days from the time of your last drink.

  • During the detox, make sure you drink plenty of fluids (about 3 litres a day). However, avoid drinking large amounts of caffeinated drinks because they can make your sleep problems worse and cause anxiety.
  • Eat regular meals, even if you’re not feeling hungry.
  • Relieve stress by reading, listening to music, going for a walk and taking a bath.
  • Several medications are available treat alcohol misuse, so speak to your GP about these.
  • It’s important to avoid all sources of alcohol as they could also induce an unpleasant reaction. Products that may contain alcohol include aftershave, mouthwash, some types of vinegar and perfume. You should also try to avoid substances that give off alcohol fumes, such as paint thinners and solvents.

Support systems and resources

  • Alcohol Drug Helpline - 0800 787 797
  • Alcoholics Anonymous
  • Alcohol.org.nz
  • livingsober.org.nz
  • whaioraonline.org.nz
Alcoholics Anonymous holds open meetings to support those wanting to quit. Photo / 123rf
Alcoholics Anonymous holds open meetings to support those wanting to quit. Photo / 123rf

Maintaining sobriety

Withdrawal and detox are first steps, but further treatment and support is usually needed for long-term sobriety.

Prof Marlow recommends: “Identify what your triggers are and avoid people who may encourage you to drink or who may also have problematic drinking patterns. Exercise can help. Keep busy and find a community of people you can speak to to help you stay focused. That may be supportive family and friends or online communities.”

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