“I thought he was joking, but then another official came in and said the same thing ... for the future of rugby, don’t beat the South Africans.
“That was a pretty destructive message, actually ... and it ripped the guts out of our spirits of our team.”
Mishal, from Reikorangi, said after reading a children’s history book called Kia Kaha, which referenced the incident, Arthur said to her, “Mamma, when I am an adult, I would like to tell the Prime Minister that this is wrong and they should apologise.”
“We told him that he didn’t have to wait, but that as a young person he had a voice and could write a letter.
“It feels poignant during election year to remind our young people that they have a voice in a democratic country and to raise kids to be empowered voters.
“It also feels poignant during the Rugby World Cup to remember our history and make right the wrongs that have happened in the past.”
She said her son’s letter to the PM was also a reminder that there is “always time to reflect, apologise and strive to be humble empowered human beings”.
Arthur’s letter said he enjoyed the book because it had “lots of stories in it like army people, famous people and they are all from Aotearoa”.
But the bit about the lead-up to the game, in particular when the Māori All Blacks were told not to win the game, had him concerned.
“I think it is not okay,” he wrote.
“The government didn’t do the right thing.
“They should have let New Zealand [Māori All Blacks] have a chance at winning.
“I would like the government to change that and give the trophy to the New Zealand rugby people.
“I want them [government] to apologise to the Māori All Blacks.”