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The many types of romantic-comedy best friends

By Stephanie Merry
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9 Oct, 2016 04:00 PM5 mins to read

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Alison (Katherine Heigl, left) and her sister, Debbie (Leslie Mann) take a number of pregnancy tests in Knocked Up.

Alison (Katherine Heigl, left) and her sister, Debbie (Leslie Mann) take a number of pregnancy tests in Knocked Up.

Sidekicks: Every romantic comedy needs one, but that doesn't mean they're all the same. These characters may have similarities - namely a life just empty enough that they can drop everything at a moment's notice to rehash their friend's love woes - but they come in different packages.

Some are hilarious, some are wise; some offer the glimpse of a life worth aspiring to, others show a path best avoided.

The buddies fall into a few different camps. Here's a look at the types, and why rom-coms need them.

The aspirational figure

These characters give the romantic leads something to yearn for. One look at this sidekick's happy relationship, filled with selfless acts of starry-eyed affection, proves that love really does exist. Conveniently, such acts take place right when the main character has lost all hope in finding a soul mate.

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You've seen this character in:

When Harry Met Sally. Jess (Bruno Kirby) and Marie (Carrie Fisher) end up on a blind double date with Harry and Sally, but they only have eyes for each other. Sure, they might argue over a wagon-wheel coffee table, but who hasn't? There's never any question these two are meant to be.

Someone Like You. Just when Jane (Ashley Judd) needs a reminder that love isn't dead, her sister Alice (Catherine Dent) has a miscarriage. Is it kind of a gross plot device? Yes, but it also allows Alice's husband to be a doting exemplar, demonstrating how all partners should treat the women they adore.

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The cautionary tale

If the aspirational figure shows us what the protagonist wants to be, the cautionary tale is the opposite - it's the character our romantic leads might become if they don't find love. And quick!

You've seen this character in:

Pretty Woman. Viv (Julia Roberts) is the hooker with a heart of gold, which makes Kit (Laura San Giacomo) the uncouth prostitute who dabbles in drugs and steals garnishes off the bar for a maraschino cherry dinner. Snag that knight, Viv!

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How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days. Kathryn Hahn plays that girl - you know, the one who keeps getting dumped because she's a clingy, engagement ring-hungry pile of longing. At least she has a hidden talent for playing a very funny fake therapist.

The sage

This character often, but not always, comes in the guise of a very young or particularly elderly person. The Yodas dispense necessary advice so that our romantic lead can see the happily-ever-after right in front of them.

Scene from the movie 500 Days of Summer.
Scene from the movie 500 Days of Summer.

You've seen the character in:

500 Days of Summer. Chloe Grace Moretz plays the kid sister of Joseph Gordon-Levitt's Tom. Sample line: "Look, I know you think she was the one, but I don't. Now, I think you're just remembering the good stuff. Next time you look back, I really think you should look again." That's one smart kid.

You've Got Mail. Dave Chappelle nearly stole the show as Tom Hanks's co-worker-confidant. Sample line: "I always take a relationship to the next level. If that works out, I take it to the next level after that, until I finally reach that level when it becomes absolutely necessary for me to leave." So maybe he's also part cautionary tale ...

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About Time. Dear old dad (Bill Nighy) gives his son Tim (Domhnall Gleeson) countless funny, profound pearls of wisdom, including this one: "Life's a mixed bag, no matter who you are. Look at Jesus: He was the son of a God, for God's sake, and look how that turned out."

The Greek chorus

Sometimes it takes a village to make love happen. The best-friend-as-group has a couple of benefits. It proves how popular the main character is while also delivering a wealth of (occasionally conflicting) advice.

You've seen the characters in:

There's Something About Mary. A powerhouse of funny ladies (including Sarah Silverman and Khandi Alexander) were perfectly content to talk about nothing but Mary's (Cameron Diaz) love life. Oh, and sex toys.

Bridget Jones's Diary. Bridget (Renee Zellweger) has a whole crew of besties who may not give great advice but sure know how to show a girl a good time - not to mention embarrass her when her one true love unexpectedly drops by for dinner.

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The comic relief

Academy Award-winner Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant star in Notting Hill.
Academy Award-winner Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant star in Notting Hill.

Sometimes the lead characters simply aren't up to the task of delivering the funny. In that case, a talented supporting player with spot-on comic timing is required to step in.

You've seen the character in:

My Best Friend's Wedding. Did anything even happen in the movie other than Rupert Everett performing a transcendent rendition of I Say A Little Prayer?

Notting Hill. What would the movie be without Rhys Ifans's T-shirt collection and buttcrack peekaboos? A lot of sad-eyed longing.

Judy Greer

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She's played so many supporting characters that she wrote a book titled I Don't Know What You Know Me From: Confessions of a Co-Star and starred in the short film Judy Greer Is the Best Friend. She's been second banana to a bunch of Jennifers, including Garner (13 Going on 30), Aniston (Love Happens) and Lopez (The Wedding Planner).

She was also Heigl's pal in 27 Dresses, a movie about a woman who's always the bridesmaid. How do you like that for irony?

Greer doesn't always play the same type of best friend, but she's consistently wonderful at whatever best friend she plays. Which only leads us to wonder: Hasn't she paid her dues? It seems well past time for Greer to get a sidekick of her own.

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