NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Herald NOW
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Herald NOW
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Politics
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Herald NOW
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Entertainment

Inside Michael Jackson's mysterious second marriage to Debbie Rowe

By Nick Bond
news.com.au·
12 Mar, 2019 07:04 AM7 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

Documentary Leaving Neverland, about Michael Jackson's alleged abuse of two boys, Wade Robson and James Safechuck continues to court controversy.

On November 13, 1996, superstar Michael Jackson walked down the aisle for the second time in a little over two years.

His divorce to Lisa Marie Presley had been finalised just three months prior. Visiting Australia on his HIStory world tour, Jackson wed nurse Debbie Rowe at Sydney's Sheraton on the Park Hotel in front of a small gathering of close friends, news.com.au reports.

His best man was an 8-year-old boy.

At the time of the wedding, Rowe was heavily pregnant with the first of two children she would "gift" Jackson, having a minimal presence in their upbringing.

ONE FAILED MARRIAGE

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Presley filed for divorce in early 1996, citing "irreconcilable differences" after a brief and very public marriage that saw the couple parading displays of physical affection in music videos, prime time interviews and awards show appearances.

Read more
Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley: Inside the marriage that fooled us

In the explosive new documentary Leaving Neverland, Jackson's child sex abuse accusers claim the entire marriage was for show, to distract the public from the star's relationships with young boys.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"I remember Michael saying to me that he's going to have to have these public relationships with women, so that people don't think anything," accuser James Safechuck reveals.

"He would always say that he'd have to go get married at some point, but that it wouldn't mean anything."

Presley to this day insists her feelings for Jackson were genuine — but there was one thing she was not prepared to give him: A baby.

ENTER DEBBIE

Discover more

Entertainment

Leaving Neverland: Child sex abuse expert weighs in

10 Mar 01:19 AM
Opinion

Dickens: Leaving Neverland is the end for Michael Jackson

11 Mar 12:20 AM
Entertainment

Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley: Inside the marriage that fooled us

11 Mar 06:58 AM
New Zealand

Jackson: 'Judge the art, not the artist'

12 Mar 05:04 PM

Jackson had first met Debbie Rowe when she was working as a nurse in his doctor's office some years earlier. By the time he and Presley split, they'd struck up a close friendship.

"They had broken up, and I was trying to console him because he was really upset," Rowe revealed in the Jackson-approved 2003 TV special Michael Jackson: The Footage You Were Never Meant To See.

Michael Jackson had first met Debbie Rowe when she was working as a nurse in his doctor's office. Photo / AP
Michael Jackson had first met Debbie Rowe when she was working as a nurse in his doctor's office. Photo / AP

That programme was produced as a response to the Martin Bashir special Living With Michael Jackson, which further damaged Jackson's reputation and sparked fresh scrutiny over his relationships with young boys.

"He said 'I really want to be a dad,' and I said 'So be a dad.' He looked at me puzzled. I said, 'Let me do this. I want to do this. You've been so good to me. Please let me do this: You need to be a dad.' I nagged him into it, if you will," Rowe revealed.

Speaking to Bashir, Jackson confirmed the story.

"She said, 'You need to be a daddy.' She wanted to do that for me as a present," he said.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

AN UNUSUAL MARRIAGE

Rowe gave birth to Jackson's first child, Prince Michael, in February of 1997, four months after their wedding. Jackson later told Bashir that both the couple's children were "natural conceptions" — that he and Rowe had sex.

Rowe recalled the birth of their first child.

"Michael was definitely more excited than I was. He was SO excited when I had a contraction. He was welling up … and then his son was born. The look on his face … I'd never seen him that happy. That's what made it wonderful for me, to see the look on his face."

Rowe would not see her son for another six weeks after the birth — he was taken to Jackson's Neverland ranch to be cared for by a team of nannies, while Rowe recovered at a friend's house.

At the time of the wedding, Debbie Rowe was heavily pregnant with the first of two children she would 'gift' Michael Jackson. Photo / news.com.au
At the time of the wedding, Debbie Rowe was heavily pregnant with the first of two children she would 'gift' Michael Jackson. Photo / news.com.au

Just 14 months later, a second child, Paris, was born. Jackson would later tell Bashir he "snatched" his newborn daughter away from the hospital — and her mother: "I snatched her and just went home with all the placenta and everything all over her."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Rowe's involvement with her young family was minimal.

"We have a non-traditional family, and if it makes people uncomfortable, it's a shame they're not more open," Rowe said in 2003. "We have a family unit, and I will always be there for him and the children. People make remarks: 'I can't believe she left the children.' I did not leave my children. My children are with their father, where they're supposed to be.

"My kids don't call me mum because I don't want them to. They're Michael's children. It's not that they're not my children, but I had them because I wanted him to be a father. I believe there are people who should be parents, and he's one of them. I could do something for him and this is what I could do."

A HASTY DIVORCE

The couple divorced in October 1999, with Rowe handing Jackson full custody rights to her two children. It was the formalisation of an arrangement that had been present throughout their marriage, with Rowe living separately from Jackson and the children.

Intensely private, Rowe said the public scrutiny had become too much and she craved a normal life.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"We split up because I couldn't deal with it. I couldn't go to the grocery store. I wasn't used to it. Michael was more than generous: 'You don't have to go to the grocery store.' But I want to. I really want to," she said in 2003.

She said she still had some level of involvement in the children's lives, explaining that Jackson's habit of shrouding their faces in material when in public had been her idea.

Debbie Rowe and Paris Jackson in 2014. Photo / Instagram via news.com.au
Debbie Rowe and Paris Jackson in 2014. Photo / Instagram via news.com.au

"I obviously have some influence, as their faces are still covered. That was my request, not his. He's very proud of his children — I'm the one who's terrified. I'm the one who's seen the notes that someone's gonna take his children," Rowe said.

"I'm sure one day he'll ask the children 'Do you want to wear the scarf?' I will have immediate heart failure. But he's not going to make his children do something they don't want to do; he's not that kind of parent."

RECONNECTING

A third child, Prince Michael II, whose nickname is Blanket, was born to an unknown surrogate in 2002, and upon Jackson's death in 2009, custody of his three children went to their grandmother, Katherine Jackson.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Rowe was allowed supervised visitations. It's understood she has a closer relationship with her daughter Paris, 20, than with her son Prince, 22.

Rowe once hinted on social media that her arrangement with Jackson had at some point soured, writing that it was "one of the saddest things in this world is to see a child grow up hating one of their parents because they only got one side of the story".

Rowe was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016 and Paris supported her through her health battle. Last year, Paris caused a stir on social media when she reposted a fan-made image showing her as an adult, stood between her late father and her mother.

One of her followers, actress Lori Petty, wrote that she thought the photo was "creepy."

Paris' response was both heartbreaking and telling.

"No, I think it's nice to dream about what it would be like to have parents, and to have it put into something I can see, even if it's a fan-made edit.", she wrote.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Petty quickly deleted her original tweet and replied: "If you like it, I love it xxx ... didn't mean to be unkind. Love you."

Save

    Share this article

Latest from Entertainment

Entertainment

Soul rock icon Lenny Kravitz announces debut NZ show

16 Jun 12:36 AM
Reviews

William Dart review: How Auckland Philharmonia captivated with Handel and Tippett

15 Jun 05:00 PM
Premium
Entertainment

Oprah shamed him. He’s back anyway

15 Jun 06:00 AM

It was just a stopover – 18 months later, they call it home

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Entertainment

Soul rock icon Lenny Kravitz announces debut NZ show

Soul rock icon Lenny Kravitz announces debut NZ show

16 Jun 12:36 AM

The 61-year-old rocker and style icon will perform in New Zealand for the first time.

William Dart review: How Auckland Philharmonia captivated with Handel and Tippett

William Dart review: How Auckland Philharmonia captivated with Handel and Tippett

15 Jun 05:00 PM
Premium
Oprah shamed him. He’s back anyway

Oprah shamed him. He’s back anyway

15 Jun 06:00 AM
Premium
Scarlett Johansson unveils her newest role at Cannes: Filmmaker

Scarlett Johansson unveils her newest role at Cannes: Filmmaker

14 Jun 07:00 PM
Sponsored: Embrace the senses
sponsored

Sponsored: Embrace the senses

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP