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US election: Donald Trump - 'No Mr Nice Guy' - tries to show softer side to win voters

By Jonathan Lemire and Zeke Miller
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25 Aug, 2020 11:26 PM8 mins to read

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The attempt to humanise Donald Trump is part of a strategy to win back senior and suburban voters who have abandoned him. Photo / AP

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American President Donald Trump kicked off his reelection campaign with a swaggering World Series ad that declared he's "No Mr Nice Guy," but his campaign has now taken pains to highlight a softer side of the famously brusque and bombastic chief executive during this week's Republican convention.

The competing depictions of the president come after the Democrats spent last week showcasing the compassion of Joe Biden. But the attempt to humanise Trump was already in the works, part of a strategy to win back senior and suburban voters who have abandoned him in no small part due to his aggressive rhetoric and lack of obvious empathy during the coronavirus pandemic.

Republicans went all-out to depict a gentler Trump on Night One of their convention.

House Minority Whip Steve Scalise of Louisiana recalled how Trump sat by his hospital bedside as he recovered from a near fatal gunshot wound in 2017. Representative Jim Jordan of Ohio spoke of how Trump embraced his request two years ago to talk with relatives whose son had died in a car accident. The president was shown talking to Covid-19 first responders, thanking his "friends" for their service.

Ivanka and Donald Trump at an event about the Farmers to Families Food Box Program on Monday in Mills River, North Carolina. Photo / AP
Ivanka and Donald Trump at an event about the Farmers to Families Food Box Program on Monday in Mills River, North Carolina. Photo / AP
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First lady Melania Trump and two of the president's children were due to speak Tuesday night about Trump's personal side.

Trump's tough-guy persona, built over half a lifetime in business, is well known. He made millions telling people "you're fired" on The Apprentice and championed his hard-nosed business practices.

Recognising that it is an immutable part of Trump's image, his allies have long worked to hold it up as an asset, both in last October's splashy ad campaign as well as during the convention.

"Joe Biden is a very good guy. I know him. He's just as nice as they come," former UN Ambassador Nikki Haley said Tuesday on Fox. "But that's just the problem. We saw what happens when you try to be nice at the United Nations. Basically, everybody was running over America when Obama and Biden were in there."

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Herschel Walker, the former NFL player, acknowledged in a convention speech Monday night that "Some people don't like Trump's style." But he added: "People on opposing teams didn't like it when I ran right over them either. But that's how you get the job done."

Walker acted as a pivot point in the Republican messaging, relaying a story of how Trump — in his business suit — once joined the ex-NFL star and their respective kids on a trip to Disney World.

Republican National Committee Chair Ronna McDaniel did much the same, offering testimony to Trump's toughness but also saying, "I've seen private moments where he comforts Americans in times of pain and sadness."

Much of last week's Democratic National Convention was used to flesh out a portrait of Biden as a man who has suffered immense personal tragedy and can relate to others, including Americans who have lost jobs or loved ones during the pandemic.

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Testimonials were offered about the pain he has suffered — his first wife and infant daughter died in a 1972 car crash; his son Beau died of cancer in 2015. And there was considerable talk about how he empathises with others, including a 13-year-old New Hampshire boy who, like the former vice-president, stuttered.

Trump aides privately concede that the Democrats told those stories well and that it accentuated their need to showcase some sense of empathy from Trump, who has previously struggled to publicly connect with victims of tragedies, including natural disasters and the pandemic.

Donald Trump's tough-guy persona, built over half a lifetime in business, is well known. Photo / AP
Donald Trump's tough-guy persona, built over half a lifetime in business, is well known. Photo / AP

Mark Meadows, the president's chief of staff, promised before the GOP convention began that the "biggest surprises" would be moments that showed "a different side of President Trump that a lot of people don't really see."

Trump aides noticed that within months of him taking office, he began losing the support of women, particularly those in the suburbs, who were turned off by some of his callous behaviour and bellicose tweets.

That only accelerated this year, after the pandemic arrived. Many suburban voters and some seniors were turned off by Trump's perceived lack of empathy for those touched by Covid-19 and those marching for racial justice after the death of George Floyd. Campaign surveys showed Trump trailed Biden badly in how voters perceived them relating to and understanding Americans' troubles.

"Everybody in public life has a strength which exposes a weakness," said Ari Fleischer, who served as press secretary to former President George W. Bush. "Trump's strength is that he's a tough guy. But it makes people wonder, is he so tough that he's not a caring guy, that he doesn't get it?"

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The new push to humanise Trump, like much of the GOP convention, is not aimed at winning over Biden supporters. Rather, it is an effort to win back some of the voters whose support Trump has lost, as well as to motivate non-voters to turn out for the president or stay home instead of casting ballots for Biden.

Tuesday's programme is designed around the theme of "Land of Opportunity."

Beyond the president's family, the speakers include the mother of a police officer killed by an immigrant in the country illegally, a former Planned Parenthood official who became an anti-abortion activist, and a Kentucky high school student whose interaction last year with a Native American man became a flashpoint in the nation's culture wars.

The student, Nicholas Sandmann, assailed the media, as Trump often does, in prepared remarks sure to please the president's loyalists.

"In November, I believe this country must unite around a president who calls the media out and refuses to allow them to create a narrative instead of reporting the facts," he said.

Melania Trump will step into the spotlight to argue for a second term for her husband. Photo / AP
Melania Trump will step into the spotlight to argue for a second term for her husband. Photo / AP

Overall, there are more than a dozen speakers planned for the evening's prime-time program, most of them appearing in prerecorded video or inside a largely empty Washington auditorium. But there is one intended star.

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"Tonight is the first lady's night," said campaign spokesman Tim Murtaugh.

Out of the public view for much of the year, Melania will step into the spotlight to argue for a second term for her husband — while trying to avoid the missteps that marred her introduction to the nation four years ago.

At her 2016 convention speech, she included passages similar to what former first lady Michelle Obama had said in her first convention speech. A speechwriter for the Trump Organisation later took the blame.

Melania Trump has not always been in lockstep with the president.

She rushed to the border to visit migrant children separated by their parents as part of a Trump administration policy, and she led a campaign against cyber bullying even as the president regularly uses social media to attack his critics.

Only the second foreign-born first lady in US history, Melania, 50, is a native of Slovenia, a former communist country in eastern Europe. She gave up studying architecture to pursue a career as a fashion model, arrived in New York in 1996 and met Donald two years later.

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She became his third wife in 2005 and gave birth to their now 14-year-old son, Barron, in 2006 — the year she became a naturalised US citizen.

The first lady was to speak from the renovated Rose Garden, despite questions about using the White House for a political convention. She was expected to address an in-person group of around 50 people, including her husband.

The attempt to humanise Donald Trump is part of a strategy to win back senior and suburban voters who have abandoned him. Photo / AP
The attempt to humanise Donald Trump is part of a strategy to win back senior and suburban voters who have abandoned him. Photo / AP

Biden and his running mate, California Senator Kamala Harris, are keeping a relatively low profile this week. In a tweet Monday night, Biden offered a simple message to his supporters: "Just stay focused, folks. Let's get to work."

Democrats have already derided Trump's failure to recognise the presidency's "duty to care," in the words of Biden spokesman Andrew Bates.

"So much of what our nation is suffering through," Bates said, "stems from Trump's inability to grasp that: the tragic and needlessly high death toll and lost jobs from the pandemic that he didn't and doesn't take seriously, and the compounded divisions that he deliberately and unjustifiably inflames for his own perceived political gain."

Trump allies insisted that the president has a softer side. But not every moment meant to display it went perfectly.

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In one of the taped pieces shown Monday night, Trump talked to a half-dozen former hostages his administration had freed from foreign prisons.

For Pastor Andrew Brunson, held hostage by the Turkish government for two years, Trump offered a welcome home — only to then salute Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan as "very good."

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