His wife, Denise Bernardo, said she would have laughed if someone said a month earlier that Lunetta was capable of killing his family.
"This is deranged. He must have snapped," she said.
However, Jackson's 10-year-old daughter said Lunetta was controlling and that they argued a lot. She was not at the home during the killings and is now staying with other family.
John Lunetta with his son John Jr after he was born. Photo / Facebook
Lunetta was a doctor who worked as a Red Cross medical director for the Nevada region with a focus on blood services.
Jackson had just passed a certification test to become a family nurse. Her car was reportedly found with a stack of nursing textbooks in the back seat next to a baby's car seat.
Neighbours said they never saw her between her job and her nursing classes.
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