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Over-the-top weddings the order of the day

By Cole Moreton
18 Jul, 2006 07:42 AM4 mins to read

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The castle looked magnificent in the sunshine. The bride wore a gown with a long train, scattered with tiny rosebuds and sparkling sequins. The guests arrived on a vintage bus. The press was welcomed, not kept behind barriers - but then there was only one reporter.

This was not the
much-hyped wedding of the England footballer Ashley Cole and the pop star Cheryl Tweedy. That grand event took place somewhere else - the true location a mystery until the last minute thanks to a clever bluff by the couple that sent the paparazzi to a stately home where nothing was happening. But as photographers and reporters scratched their heads in Berkshire, another lavish wedding really was taking place in a castle, further north in Yorkshire.

Natalie Pike and Stephen Atkinson were following a new trend for celebrity-inspired nuptials that has seen the average price of a wedding rise £4000 ($11,700) in the last year to nearly £20,000. Their ceremony at Allerton Castle cost £30,000. "We are over the budget," admitted Natalie, 26, an accountant from Scunthorpe. "But then again, most people are over their budget."

The meringue wedding dress, symbol of eighties excess, is back in fashion. Stretch limos are taking the place of Rolls-Royces.

White doves are the must-have accessory this summer, even for young lovers marrying in the local parish church.

"People want more than the usual three-course sit-down meal in a bog standard marquee," said Marc Sharer, a partner at Taste wedding planners.

"They want a taste of the life that the new celebrity footballers and their crowd experience."

A couple asked him for a mirrored dancefloor after seeing one at the television party thrown by David and Victoria Beckham before the World Cup. Other recent wedding requests have included a bar made of two-metre thick blocks of ice with the names of the couple engraved on it, and a Yo-Sushi style conveyor belt for a rice and raw fish supper.

Some 230,000 couples are expected to marry in Britain during this northern summer, spending nearly $11.5 billion. The cost of a wedding is typically three times more than people expect. The good news for fathers is that 80 per cent of couples now pay for their own event. But 20 per cent go into debt.

The Atkinson betrothal took place inside the Great Hall at Allerton Castle. "We wanted a big do, and we both fell in love with the place," said Stephen, 37. "We wanted to do our own thing, but people are definitely influenced these days by celebrities. They want to be seen to be keeping up with the Joneses."

The press could not keep up with the Coles. The footballer's wedding - dubbed by some as the tackiest of the year - had been expected to take place at Highclere Castle in Berkshire.

Rights had been sold to OK! magazine for $2.9 million and there was much talk of tasteful little details such as a monogrammed diamante coat for Buster, the bride's pet chihuahua. However, reporters found the gates wide open and a marquee being dismantled.

Highclere was the venue for Jordan's lavish pink wedding last year - around the time Cheryl Tweedy was insisting: "We're not going to do a mag deal. We just want it to be a quiet affair with everyone we love there."

They did their best. The couple did sign a magazine contract after all, but guests received a confidentiality clause to sign along with the suede wedding invitations. Later, it emerged that the fixture had been switched to Wrotham Hall, a Palladian mansion in Hertfordshire close to Barnet, where Arsenal were playing a friendly match.

The England player is thought to be about to join David Beckham at Real Madrid. But teammates attended the ceremony. The wedding took place in front of 100 guests at a private chapel on the 1000ha estate.

A huge screen prevented photographers capturing the bride's arrival in a horse-drawn carriage with blacked-out windows. Her cream gown was trimmed with crystals. Her vehicle was restrained compared to the pink glass carriage in which Jordan arrived for her wedding before six doves flew from the folds of her dress.

The carriage has gone on to star in other, non-celebrity nuptials, including those of Carly O'Brien, a 16-year-old from Gloucester. Her sister Crystal said: "She said she wanted a bigger and better wedding than Jordan, and she got it."

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