"He kept saying, 'We worked so hard on it.' He was really thinking about how I would feel, which tells you a lot about him," she told Today.
Evan, who Jill said loves dressing up, felt embarrassed and defeated by the ordeal – prompting his mum to air her frustration on Facebook to share a photo of her son in tears.
Jill Struckman's son Evan dressed up as Tony Stark for his school Halloween party. Photo / Facebook / Jill Struckman
Her post clearly resonated, being shared almost 260,000 times to date, and receiving thousands of comments and likes.
Eventually, Evan was able to muster up the courage to return to school that day, something Jill describes as "a defining moment in his life".
"If he hadn't gone back, it would have broken his spirit," she said.