The TikTok shows a man paying for Esa's groceries but the supposedly kind gesture has left Esa traumatised. Photo / Rustam Raziev / TikTok
The TikTok shows a man paying for Esa's groceries but the supposedly kind gesture has left Esa traumatised. Photo / Rustam Raziev / TikTok
A man says he has been "traumatised" after seeing a viral video of himself in a grocery store where he had no idea he was being filmed.
At first look, the TikTok posted by Rustam Raziev might seem like nothing more than a heartwarming random act of kindness.
The videoshows a man in a grey jacket waiting to pay for his groceries at Coles checkout in Melbourne before a stranger swoops in and sneakily pays for the lot.
The video, which has amassed more than six million views, was captioned: "My mission? Being myself. Helping others. Become a better version of myself."
But for the man in the video it has had the complete opposite effect.
Esa, who didn't want his full name published, told the ABC that he had no idea he was being filmed and only found out when he saw the video published online.
He didn't even realise that his groceries, amounting to about $33, had been paid for by a stranger, let alone that he was being videoed.
When he went to pay the cashier told him everything had been paid for and when Esa asked why he simply said, "It's all done".
Esa was understandably confused but said he thought it must have been some special promotion being run by the supermarket.
It wasn't until a few weeks later when his friends showed him the TikTok video did he realise what had actually happened.
"I checked [it] out and saw my video, which really creeped me out and made me upset," he told the ABC.
"I don't want to be famous, I don't want people to know about me … and he did it without my consent too. I wasn't happy about it."
Esa said he had no idea what had happened until he saw the video on TikTok. Photo / Rustam Raziev / via TikTok
Esa came to Australia in 2001 from Afghanistan as an asylum seeker and places a lot of importance on his privacy, so much so that he never posts videos of himself on his personal social media.
He said he felt "embarrassed, guilty, a bit shocked and sad" after seeing the video, saying it made him look like a "desperate person who needs help".
"I have friends and family around the world, they've been calling me saying: 'Oh, you need help' and 'What happened to you? Someone's paying for your food'. I was a bit traumatised," he said.
Looking at the comments on the video, it is clear why Esa has been made to feel this way.
"He looks like he's going through something I feel bad," one person said.
Other people said it looked as if Esa was trying not to cry in the video, while others claimed he "probably really needed" the kind gesture.
"He obviously needed that, he couldn't even turn around as you could see him holding back the emotions," another person said.
One even claimed: "I think you saved this man."
This isn't the first time a "random acts of kindness video" has backfired, with one Melbourne woman revealing she felt "dehumanised" after seeing herself featured in a similar video.
Last month, Harrison Pawluk uploaded a video of himself to TikTok giving the woman, Maree, a bunch of flowers.
The caption on the video, which has been viewed more than 58 million times, read, "I hope this made her day better".
The 19-second clip shows Maree sitting down for a coffee in a Melbourne food court.
"And then he really just, you know, put his backpack on and his jacket on and just sort of strode off."
The footage, shared by the 22-year-old to his 3.2 million followers, was picked up by the Daily Mail, which ran a story that Maree says misrepresented her as a lonely, sad woman.
"They must have gone through the film and they got this picture of me looking, you know, supposedly crying but it was just a horrible expression. And I just was quite offended.
"He interrupted my quiet time, filmed and uploaded a video without my consent, turning it into something it wasn't, and I feel like he is making quite a lot of money through it."
