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'Lies spew from his mouth': Karen Ristevski's family lash wife-killer Borce in court, but Sarah gives 'glowing reference'

By Rohan Smith
news.com.au·
27 Mar, 2019 03:03 AM4 mins to read

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Borce Ristevski sat motionless in the dock as victim impact statements were read over the killing of Karen Ristevski. Photo / Supplied

Borce Ristevski sat motionless in the dock as victim impact statements were read over the killing of Karen Ristevski. Photo / Supplied

Wife-killer Borce Ristevski watched on in silence as relatives told him he was "selfish", "despicable", "vicious", "heinous", "cruel" and "a monster".

Victim impact statements were read out in Australia by family members of Kiwi Karen Ristevski on the first day of a pre-sentence hearing in Victoria's Supreme Court today.

Karen's aunt Patricia Gray broke down in the witness box metres from Borce, news.com.au reports.

She told the 55-year-old she did not attend Karen's funeral because she couldn't bear to watch him carry the coffin or hear "lies spew from his mouth".

"To watch ... as he was comforted by family and friends, to hear lies spew from his mouth — it would've made me sick," she said.

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Gray told Borce she would never forgive him for what he did. For lying throughout the search for Karen's body and for feigning compassion for the couple's only daughter Sarah as she struggled and searched for answers.

"I can never forgive Borce for the lies and deceit and manipulation," she told the court through tears.

"He manipulated his family. I believe he bullied and manipulated [Sarah]."

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Sarah Ristevski, 23, right, was asked whether she wanted to submit a victim impact statement but she declined. Photo / Supplied
Sarah Ristevski, 23, right, was asked whether she wanted to submit a victim impact statement but she declined. Photo / Supplied

She said "one selfish, cowardly act took her from me" before reading a poem to the deceased.

"I wish that you had told me how things were for you. I would've been there, whatever you needed me to do.

"Goodbye my precious niece, my darling girl."

Sarah Ristevski, 23, was asked whether she wanted to submit a victim impact statement but she declined.

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Sarah did submit a character reference, which the court heard was entirely supportive of her father.

"She has given her father a glowing reference," Judge Christopher Beale told the court.

The reference includes details about his support for local sports clubs, including where he coached local cricket teams.

Karen's cousin Nevada Knight told the court she had lost 15kg "by going days and weeks without being able to move" after the 47-year-old went missing.

"I would vomit every time I moved," she said.

Knight spoke of sitting behind Borce at her cousin's funeral and being hugged by the man who killed her.

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"I hugged him standing over her body at her grave site where he whispered, 'thank you for coming, your support means a lot'."

She told him he was not remorseful and had only admitted to killing his wife "when it suited your case".

"You've had almost three years to come forward. That's not remorse. That's selfishness.

"Her body was discarded in the most inhumane way. It takes only a second to dial triple-0."

Borce Ristevski admitted to killing his wife Karen earlier this month after denying any involvement for almost three years. Photo / Supplied
Borce Ristevski admitted to killing his wife Karen earlier this month after denying any involvement for almost three years. Photo / Supplied

Stephen Williams, Karen's brother, said Borce never once asked him if he was okay. Instead, he made the entire family's ordeal about him.

"Listening to [Borce] talk about himself — he never mentioned Karen, he never asked how I was feeling. He spoke only about how police were targeting him, how media were portraying him.

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"I could see through [the lies] but I didn't say anything."

Borce sat motionless in the dock wearing a black suit and white shirt as the victim impact statements were read out. He spoke briefly when asked to confirm his name and date of birth.

Supreme Court Judge Christopher Beale earlier revealed Borce would be sentenced for manslaughter on April 18.

Karen Ristevski went missing on June 29, 2016. Borce admitted to killing her earlier this month after denying any involvement for almost three years.

On the morning she disappeared, Borce apparently bundled her body into the back of her Mercedes Benz and drove north to Macedon Regional Park where he dumped her between two logs and covered her body with sticks and logs.

She was found by two horticulturalists eight months later. The cause of her death has never been determined.

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