Here's the scenario. Late one evening Donald Trump is watching Fox News and a report comes on that North Korea is planning to launch a missile that can reach the United States. (Kim Jong Un's regime has said it is going to do that one of these days - but
Gwynne Dyer: Grown-ups between Trump and red button
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It's just a scenario, but it's one that keeps many people awake at night - including senior people in the US military. That's why reports have been surfacing recently that the US Secretary of Defence, General James Mattis, the National Security Adviser, General H.R. McMaster, and Trump's Chief of Staff, General John Kelly, have made a secret pact that all three will never be abroad at the same time.
Why not? Because at least one very senior military officer must always be in the country to monitor orders coming from the White House, and countermand them if necessary.
I cannot vouch for the accuracy of these reports, but I believe them. In fact, I was already assuming that some arrangement like that was in place.
Mattis, McMaster and Kelly are serious, experienced and professional military officers, and it would be a dereliction of duty for them not to ensure there is always at least one responsible adult between Trump and the nuclear button.
If one of these generals actually found himself in the position of having to stop Trump, he would face an agonising decision.
All his training tells him that he must obey civilian authority, and he will certainly be court-martialled if he disobeys a presidential order. On the other hand, he must not allow millions of human beings to die because of a stupid mistake.
I'm sure they think about it, and I doubt that any of them knows which way he would actually jump if the situation arose. Providing adult supervision is a tricky business, especially when the child is technically your superior.
And having said all this, it occurs to me that some senior military officers in North Korea must face the same dilemma. They too have a child-man in charge, and will be all too aware that if "little rocket man", as Trump calls him, stumbles into a war with the United States, then they, their families, and practically everybody they have ever met will be killed.
There is probably not going to be a Second Korean War. Probably neither set of senior officers is ever going to face this ultimate crisis. A subtle form of adult supervision is exercised on a daily basis in both capitals, because even the loosest of loose cannons has to work through other people in order to get his orders turned into actions.
But things have come to a pretty pass when we can have this discussion without sounding crazy.
• John Roughan is on holiday and returns next week.