"I couldn't believe it until my daughter sent me a picture of the gravestone," the 62-year-old grandmother, who has also not been named, told Kitzinger newspaper.
She explained how she had paid the stonemason €130 ($220) to remove the headstone after the 20-year lease on her husband's burial plot expired in 2016.
"Why didn't he at least remove the metal lettering? That wouldn't have involved much work," she said. "Was it carelessness or was it deliberate?
"It took a long time for me to get over my husband's death over 21 years ago and now everything is coming back — and cruelly, too."
The girl's grandfather died in 1996. Although he was cremated, under German law the ashes have to be buried in an official cemetery. Leases on burial plots are often relatively short, and many families choose not to renew them.
The stonemason has repaid the widow her money and says the theme park assured him they would remove the inscription.