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Covid 19 coronavirus: Honouring one life among 500,000

By Shelby Knowles and Rachel Wisniewski
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24 Feb, 2021 10:00 PM3 mins to read

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A viewing announcement for Mildred Perry at Alfonso Cannon Funeral Chapels in Philadelphia. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

A viewing announcement for Mildred Perry at Alfonso Cannon Funeral Chapels in Philadelphia. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

In North Philadelphia, a family gathered for a last day with "The Best Mom Ever."

As Mildred Perry's coffin was lowered into the snow-covered ground at Greenmount Cemetery on Tuesday, her family sang I'll Fly Away, a traditional selection to close a funeral service.

Perry, 94, thought she had beaten the coronavirus after she contracted it last spring. But eight months later, her lungs had not recovered. She died February 15 at Temple University Hospital in Philadelphia, of prolonged medical complications from Covid-19, as the country was nearing another painful milestone in the pandemic.

Family members pray for Mildred Perry. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times
Family members pray for Mildred Perry. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

Perry grew up in Emanuel County in Georgia, then moved to Philadelphia shortly after her first marriage. She worked in a factory that made slipcovers for seven years before leaving to raise her family. She loved Gospel music, Sam Cooke and hosting family visiting from out of town.

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"Our couch was always open," said Sam Perry-Cross, 61, her youngest son, who described her as the "ultimate provider."

"She was just there for everybody."

Aisha Jones, the granddaughter of Mildred Perry, watches the livestream of her grandmothe's funera. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times
Aisha Jones, the granddaughter of Mildred Perry, watches the livestream of her grandmothe's funera. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

Perry had nine children and 16 grandchildren, as well as many great- and great-great-grandchildren.

About 25 family members were in attendance at the viewing at Alfonso Cannon Funeral Chapels in North Philadelphia on Tuesday. More family and friends wanted to pay their respects, but the chapel had to limit the size of the gathering because of pandemic restrictions.

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Family members had to preregister on a guest list with the chapel. All visitors were greeted with a pump of hand sanitiser as they entered the chapel for the viewing.

"If Covid wasn't here, we would've had it in a big church with a couple hundred people," Perry-Cross said. "So, today was very mild and reduced compared to what we're used to."

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Associates of Alfonso Cannon Funeral Chapels prepare to transport Mildred Perry from the chapel to the cemetery. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times
Associates of Alfonso Cannon Funeral Chapels prepare to transport Mildred Perry from the chapel to the cemetery. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

The event was broadcast on a livestream for loved ones who could not attend in person. Perry's granddaughter Aisha Jones connected with family over FaceTime and Facebook Live. Family members tuned in from Delaware, Georgia, Washington, DC, and other parts of Philadelphia.

According to the Philadelphia Department of Public Health, as of Tuesday, there were 117,022 cases of the coronavirus and 3,085 deaths in the city. Data released by the city showed that Black Philadelphians comprised the largest group of coronavirus cases in the city, at 32 per cent; the second largest cohort were categorised as "unknown." White Philadelphians made up 22 per cent. Black residents also had the highest overall cases when broken down by age group.

Family members gather around the grave. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times
Family members gather around the grave. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

Perry died a week before the US death toll from the coronavirus topped 500,000 cases.

Nationwide, Covid-19 has had a disproportionate impact on communities of colour. Black people have died at 1.9 times the rate of white people, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Larry Perry, another of Perry's sons, had shirts and cloth masks made that proclaimed, in bold script, "The Best Mom Ever."

Mildred Perry's grandchildren place flowers on her coffin. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times
Mildred Perry's grandchildren place flowers on her coffin. Photo / Rachel Wisniewski, The New York Times

The pandemic has greatly reduced in-person interactions with family and friends. Perry's home-going services were a time for the family to come together — some members meeting for the first time, according to Perry-Cross.

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"It's a shame that it's only for one day," Perry-Cross said. "But it's great to come back home."


Written by: Shelby Knowles and Rachel Wisniewski
Photographs by: Rachel Wisniewski
© 2021 THE NEW YORK TIMES

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