Fat Dog is an established, relaxed favourite with decent food, a good $8 menu for children, mismatched furniture, high chairs and a box of toys. It's so busy and noisy that no one will notice junior climbing on the table.
Capers has a wee room with a television and video and some younger children's wall-mounted activities. Good salads for the parents.
Gelatamore does gorgeous Italian frozen confections that look almost too good to eat. Almost.
If you're in the neighbourhood, there are two notable out-of-town options. Essence Café, in quiet Ngongataha village, is a few minutes' drive from the luge, Rainbow Springs, the Agrodome and the woodchopper's show. Lovely food and a big roadside courtyard where the kids can tear around.
Near Lake Rotoiti, Okere Falls Store is a legend in its own time, for fabulous fresh deli meals, loads of organic fare and a newish garden bar and sand pit out back.