Rob Te Moana, who was waiting for his son to arrive in Wellington, called Jetstar to be told that the airline could not discuss the situation with him as his name was not on the ticket.
Finally arrangements were made to fly Te Moana to Wellington this morning.
"I just feel gutted for the little bugger," his father said.
"It's just ridiculous - they let him on going up there."
"He doesn't carry photo ID - he is only 13."
A Jetstar representative informed the Herald that family members can pre-arrange a range of different forms of ID before a person under the age of 12 travels.
Te Moana has sworn he will never fly with Jetstar again.