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Is it acceptable to wear pyjamas to a hotel buffet breakfast?

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Outraged guests have taken to social media to shame those who go to breakfast at hotels in their pyjamas. Photos / Twitter

Outraged guests have taken to social media to shame those who go to breakfast at hotels in their pyjamas. Photos / Twitter

Taranaki's Hawera Cinema started a worldwide debate recently when it banned customers from wearing pyjamas and onesies to screenings.

And it seems this issue is also a pressing concern at hotel buffet breakfasts, the Sun reports.

Some guests are taking the relaxed holiday lifestyle a little too far and showing up to breakfast in pyjamas, dressing gowns and slippers in increasing numbers.

I used to have a problem with people in pjs at the hotel breakfast area, then this morning..... pic.twitter.com/Uw3DqHQrOj

— terry myers (@ktut108) October 7, 2014

This trend has caused outrage among other diners, many of whom have taken to social media to shame the worst offenders.

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"Wearing pyjamas at breakfast is the height of sloppiness," etiquette expert William Hanson told Sun Online Travel.

"Whilst hotels encourage you to relax and be 'at home' there are limits and this usually relates to the private areas (your room or suite) and not the public or communal areas."

A post on Quora asked: "Should people attend the free breakfast buffets at hotels in their pajamas?"

Responses were mixed. A user named Beth Goldowitz said, "Absolutely not".

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"Nor should they do their makeup on the subway, or wear flannel robes to drive their children to school. And yet, we see these things all too often, because people have become increasingly casual about how they dress in public."

Seriously? This lady shows up to the hotel breakfast in her full pajamas....Have some self-respect!! pic.twitter.com/rpLOWhRl

— Alex Sankey (@alexsankey) July 4, 2012

A grown woman wearing footie pjs at a breakfast buffet? @SebastianComedy #arentyouembarassed pic.twitter.com/coxSXRdCYu

— Becky Antioco (@beckarooaz) December 23, 2013

However, user Hatem Faheem said he didn't see a problem, "as long as you smell good and your clothes are clean."

On TripAdvisor, a user called Myflyon claimed to have made a complaint to hotel management after multiple guests came down to breakfast in pyjamas.

Fan of hotels that offer breakfast 👍. NOT a fan of 45 yr old braless women that wear pajamas to breakfast 👎. #NotOK pic.twitter.com/OaSCr308pQ

— Kathy Bossman (@KathyBossman) May 30, 2016

"In all our travels we have never experienced this before. I think it is not appropriate," they wrote.

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"When I brought this to the management's attention, I was told that as long as they were dressed it was OK."

Coming to breakfast at the hotel in your pajamas. #HamptonInn #WhiteTrash pic.twitter.com/2px9pz6az2

— 🐾 Scott (@CatDudeScott) November 11, 2017

Another user, JAtlanta, responded to the review to say they were overreacting.

"As long as nobody was exposing himself, what's the big deal. Wear what makes you comfortable and stop obsessing over what other people are doing."

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