When I was 11, one of my best friends was Jewish. Actually, Margaret was half Jewish, half Christian, a mix she struggled to understand at times. Through her, I learned about Jewish festivals and customs and gained an insight into the similarities between her Judaism and my Anglicanism.
Margaret didn’t just teach me about religion, she also talked a lot about puberty - which as 11-year-old girls was certainly on our minds a lot. Along with boys, feeling like our parents didn’t understand us, the trials of school and the politics of the school lunch line were all topics I felt comfy exploring with Margaret.
Only, Margaret wasn’t actually real. Margaret Simon is the main character and narrator of Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume, a book that some parents think should be banned from school library bookshelves. Why, well, you know - puberty, boys... clearly not suitable topics right?
Fortunately for me, my school library did have the book, along with The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole, Aged 13 ¾ by Sue Townsend, another book that had the book-banning crowd clutching their pearls and decrying the unsuitability of young adults going through puberty and the teenage years reading books about young adults going through puberty and the teenage years.
While these books, along with the other many young adult reads that have come under scrutiny over the years, didn’t contain all the answers to growing up, they certainly helped with the journey. From Margaret’s concern about her non-existent bra size (surely I wasn’t the only teenager in the late 80s and early 90s to faithfully follow Margaret’s “I must, I must I must increase my bust” exercises?) to Adrian’s crush on the ultimate girl next door - Pandora. The storylines resonated with me and other young adult readers in a way that The Secret Seven and such other books deemed more appropriate by the aforementioned pearls-clutching crowd of would-be book banners just couldn’t replicate.