Indeed, so-called harmony may actually be an unhealthy facade, the sort psychologists have shown can develop through group dynamics.
And yet, not getting on with each other is almost a tradition in Dutch soccer teams because people from Holland tend to regard calling a spade a spade as a natural way of life. Our greatest cricket team was full of blokes who didn't get on, including the captain, Jeremy Coney, and superstar all-rounder Richard Hadlee. The Canterbury Bulldogs won an Australian league premiership in the 1990s when there was so much internal strife a court case was required.
And a case in point: Simon Mannering hasn't exactly been endorsed as captain by the Warriors' new coach, Matthew Elliott, but he is getting on with doing his very best for the club. That's the sort of bloke to admire.
There were problems between Hesson and Taylor before the Sri Lankan hotel room disaster, and we can't assume that all the fault lies with the coach.
New Zealand Cricket might consider calling in a mediator, a communicator with strength and charisma, to get Taylor back into the fold. Someone like John Hart could be the man. (Chief executive David White - a dry and humourless fellow in my experience - isn't likely to excel in this area.)
The New Zealand team are risking one almighty disaster in South Africa and they shouldn't give up on Taylor yet. Cricket stands on the brink in this country. Taylor isn't making a stand for the wider good, he's simply got a personal gripe. He's been let down, but in turn he is letting the game, fans and teammates down - big time.
Williams takes over
Good luck to Ali Williams, the new Blues captain, who was just about the only man for the job once Keven Mealamu had chucked it in although Luke Braid must have gone close. The failure to produce natural leaders is yet another indictment of Auckland rugby and points to a reason why the Blues have struggled for so long.