"We had the same problem in Jo'burg [this year]. The haka for us is all about us connecting with each other and getting ready. When you hear a crowd roaring, it just sort of lifts you as well. It was awesome to be a part of it."
Asked about his back-slapping interaction with Carter, Messam said: "It was me paying my respects to a great man who was about to play his 100th test for the All Blacks. I warned him before the game that I was going to slap him but I didn't realise ... I just got caught up in all the emotion and stuff trying to drag him up. For me it was I guess [about] what he has achieved."
Carter's afternoon ended after only 26 minutes. Forced to leave the field with another Achilles injury, he won't be available for his team's final test of the year against Ireland in Dublin next Monday morning ahead of his sabbatical.
Messam, however, enjoyed a better day in what was a brutal encounter against England. He has continued his good form at blindside flanker, holding off the challenge of newcomer Steven Luatua, and the Chiefs skipper put his improvements down to time in the jersey.
"When I started my All Black career I was playing a lot at No8. In my last two seasons here I definitely had a good shot at playing in my preferred position at blindside."
Assessing the challenge Ireland will pose, Messam said the important thing was to get over the England battle as quickly as possible.
"A big part of it is getting our week right and getting into recovery. There are a lot of sore boys today.
"The job's not done yet. We want to make sure we finish the job."