The ASSFA executive met on Monday and he will be sending out a missive later in the week detailing the long history of the association.
McLaughlan feels ASSFA has done a good job administering football and believes that should continue.
"It's all down to the schools on October 21. If two-thirds want to dissolve, we dissolve. If they don't, we stay as an association," he said.
College Sport chief executive Dave Currie acknowledges the work done by McLaughlan, but wants to see a more streamlined operation for boys football. College Sports runs girls football in the region and wants to combine resources.
Currie said there was too much "triple-handling" with some of the work done by McLaughlan, when College Sport already did much of the background administrative work surrounding draws and the like. He said ASSFA did not have charitable status, so, for example, should not be sending out invoices and handling money.
"We want to have conversations to standardise things and bring them into line with what we do," says Currie. "We also need to have some relationship with the regional sporting bodies, the Northern Football and Auckland Football federations.
"ASSFA have virtually no link with them, other than providing referees. We can't work in isolation. To grow we have to be in partnership."
There was a tension between school and club football, which Currie would like to see lessened, and inconsistencies between ASSFA rules and College Sport bylaws, which he said were not helpful.
Schools cricket is organised through the Auckland Cricket Association and rugby through the Auckland Rugby Union.