Mr Griffiths said all three were wearing lifejackets.
The girl had gone out on the boat with her 48-year-old father and a male friend, also aged 13, in the early afternoon.
Mr Aitken said it was thought the boat's engine started to fail and cut out about 300 metres from the shore.
"The boat became swamped before capsizing.''
The man and boy made it ashore together, while the girl was found on shore about 30 minutes later.
"Tragically, resuscitation attempts to revive her were unsuccessful,'' Mr Aitken said.
Police did not expect to release the girl's name until tomorrow.
- additional reporting APNZ
