Death by road crash, to many people, is either a statistic, a special effects advertisement, or a part of a sanitised UKTV drama. I am still disgruntled at the public's unwillingness to be confronted with the reality of road death, but I also know the newspaper has a duty of care when it comes to sensitivity.
I have a pretty decent knowledge of the reality of road crashes.
Whoever dies is just the prologue to years of mess for the survivors and the person who caused it. Have a look at what chapters could follow: turning off life-support machine, arrest, charges, media coverage, on-line harassment, court case, sentence, meet dead person's family, contemplate suicide.
When you're driving, and running near to 100km/h, or you're getting tired, or you're thinking about that drink, run that bitter list through your mind. That list is real. Could you survive it?