"[With] both behaving badly at times. This occurred at a stressful time, while they were trying to get the kids to school.
"Mr Jope is a young man that does need help to live a more constructive life."
Ms Elder said the abuse was two-way and the breach was not "the most serious of them".
Judge Peter Hobbs said Jope had 11 convictions for breaching protection orders.
"On it's own it's not the most serious breach, but for your history it might not attract a sentence of imprisonment. You have 11 convictions for breaching protection orders in the past, you don't seem to have learned your lesson," Judge Hobbs said.
He sentenced Jope to four months' imprisonment with release conditions to attend a stopping family violence programme and alcohol and drug counselling, as directed by probation.