But they now wanted people to know the little girl was among those affected by the tragedy.
"She's doing all right. She lives in [Kava's native] Tonga and she's finally accepted it but I think we won't tell her about the court [charge] ... until the end."
Kava was standing at the back of the charter boat during an evening cruise when he fell backwards into the water.
At the time, friends on board said Kava fell when a ramp gave way.
Red Boats owner Andrew Somers said at the time the ramp wasn't broken and staff had later tested it.
The feeling was still bittersweet though, she said.
"Even though it's going to court, it's still not going to bring Tevita back to us."
As well as Kava's daughter, his sister, Mary-Rose Telua, had also struggled with his death.
"They were like two peas in a pod. She went into shut down. She's doing all right now."
Speedy's own mother - who treated Kava like a son, as Speedy had treated him like a brother - became emotional when she heard Red Boats had been charged.
"It's the first time I've seen her break down since it happened ... we lost our brother, that's the hurting part."