"Definitely the judge has discretion in these matters and he hasn't been rude to us of angry with us. It seems like he just wants us to go through the process. The only problem is it's very difficult to figure out what the process is here," Ms Khatri said.
"It is unfortunate and I feel especially bad for the relatives and the victims' families who don't speak Arabic and don't really know what's going on and they want to be informed."
Witness testimony finished last week and closing arguments will be heard at the end of the month.
The media restrictions are the latest of a string of frustrations over the case.
The hearing was postponed four times because the owners of the Gympanzee daycare centre failed to show up.
In January, the triplets' father Martin Weekes voiced concerns over evidence in the hearing, saying the judge and victims' families had not been presented with an independent report into the fire.
The report was produced in one week, after which all evidence on the mall was destroyed, Mr Weekes told APNZ.
"To this day, we have been denied access to that report ... not only have we been denied access to it, it's not been presented to the court. The most scientific piece of evidence that's available has not been presented to the court," he said at the time.
Last month the hearing revealed evidence the nursery was not licensed, and victims' families who also said they felt insulted and attacked by questions posed to them during the hearing.
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