However, there was an upbeat mood at last night's dinner to acknowledge the contributions of Tariana Turia and Pita Sharples, although Dr Sharples could not attend because his wife was ill.
The dinner was on Tariana Turia's home marae, and Mr Flavell said it symbolised the Maori Party returning Mrs Turia home to her people, back to the place it all started. "She will go down as one of the icons of our people, forever and a day."
He had worked alongside Mrs Turia and Dr Sharples for the past nine years.
"The place is totally different without you and Pete being around. I'm stuck in the old office. I did a wee karakia [prayer] before I went in. And everything's nice and smooth. But your spirit will never be gone from that place. Never. So I acknowledge you tonight."
The upbeat mood was helped by the MC, Tariana Turia's son Pahia Turia, who proved to be quite the comedian. There was also an enthusiastic singer with a keyboard who launched into celebratory music at regular points.
That happened so often it prompted Pahia to say that the marae's neighbours would think they were hosting an Amway conference.
He also joked that his mother had been at such a loose end since leaving Parliament he had begged Bill English to find her a job so she stopped calling Pahia every morning to check on the wellbeing of the iwi. He then told Mr Flavell that in his new role as Minister of Maori Affairs he would discover he had millions of friend he never he had - all of whom would have voted for Labour.
To much laughter he then drew on the Karate Kid to rally the audience after the election result, saying he knew an old Chinese proverb. "Do not look at the opportunity lost, but the wisdom gained, Grasshopper."
Tame Iti, a long-term Maori Party supporter who had stood on the list to try to bolster the party's vote, also urged party members not to lose heart. He said it had always been hard to push for what was right and the next three years provided the opportunity to rebuild and push for 'revolution' from around the table.
An emotional Mrs Turia also gave a farewell, saying Maori did not need to be in Parliament to be political. "I'll be as political outside Parliament as I was even before I went there." She said Hone Harawira was also proof of that. What she had admired about him was that she knew he stood for something.