Many Kiwis wouldn't put in the grind and work as hard as some of these refugees do. Many Kiwis are growing up with a sense of entitlement, rather than any work ethic.
The people I know who deal first-hand with refugees find them on the whole to be grateful, humble hard-working people who want to make the best of the opportunities given to them.
They've often come from dire circumstances, displaced in extremely awful conditions or situations, making huge sacrifices for their families, and they're enormously grateful to be here.
I like the idea that we prepare properly for them too, we need to support them and help with their transition. Despite the moaners and the naysayers around this sort of wraparound care for refugees, this actually benefits everybody.
And who can argue against diversity? Who can argue against all they can bring to teach us, and help make our country more interesting? The skills and experience they bring, we should be welcoming this with open arms.
It saddens me how mean-spirited we can sound in judging and reacting in a knee jerk fashion to refugees.
We lump them all in one boat and pigeon hole them all as criminals or bludgers.
They're often the opposite of that.
Refugees are an easy target for vitriol, but from my experience, and from what I hear from friends who're at the coal face of this, refugees have nothing but good things to offer us as a country.
So what are we so afraid of?