When she was 14, she spent time in a sanatorium and Pauline - who has since changed her name to Hilary Nathan - was her one true friend.
"I wasn't allowed visitors of any sort but she wrote to me every day and I felt I owed her for that friendship," Perry says.
She tells the magazine that because of those letters, she always felt that she owed "a lifeline" to Pauline Parker.
What came about was murder, but that was something that happened within 24 hours of their world coming apart.
"Within 24 hours I learnt that my parents' marriage was dissolving, my father lost his job and they were leaving the country and a girl to whom I felt I owed a great deal of debt hit the buffers as well and the decision had to be made within hours."
Perry also talks about Sir Peter Jackson's film, Heavenly Creatures, in which she was played by Hollywood star Kate Winslet.
"When the film came out, that was indescribably awful ... I don't want anything to do with it."
Over the years she learned to forgive herself, she says, as the actions back then were those of a child.
A biography written by Kiwi writer Joanne Drayton - The Search for Anne Perry - is also now available.