He initially decided to put his father in the rest home as it was spacious and the staff seemed friendly.
Hemi, his mother, Betty, and his wife, Priscilla, visited him twice a day to make sure he was okay.
"You would hear him before you see him. He was always whistling and singing."
However, during a visit about three weeks into his stay he noticed that his normally happy father suddenly stopped not only the whistling but talking as well. Then, in a visit not long after, he said ''hello'' to his father and waved his hand above his head.
His father cowered and curled over.
"He stopped singing, stopped whistling and wouldn't hardly even talk to us."
Piri Hemi is now living with his son, daughter-in-law, their children, and Betty.
Deo was remanded to reappear in the Hamilton District Court in December.