Outside court yesterday, Mrs Gotingco's son John said the family were pleased that people had come to support their call for justice.
"We feel we're not going through this situation alone.
"My mother's death, while tragic, we hope it will be a catalyst for change for how to deal with crime in New Zealand," he said.
Antonio Gotingco said he was thankful for the support of the community. "I just want to see justice for my wife and safety for all."
The family did not want to be in court for the accused's appearance, protest organiser and Birkdale resident Tracey Clarke said.
Inside, the man accused of her murder was granted continuing name suppression by Justice Timothy Brewer.
The move angered supporters, who described themselves as "numb" after hearing the decision.
Suppression was opposed by Crown prosecutor Aaron Perkins.
The defendant disrupted proceedings by swearing loudly from the dock, and was removed by security and taken to the cells.
He did not enter a plea, but a three-week trial was set for March next year. The suppression order lasts until then. He will next appear for a pre-trial hearing in August.