NZ Herald
  • Home
  • Latest news
  • Video
  • New Zealand
  • Sport
  • World
  • Business
  • Entertainment
  • Podcasts
  • Quizzes
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Travel
  • Viva
  • Weather forecasts

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • New Zealand
    • All New Zealand
    • Crime
    • Politics
    • Education
    • Open Justice
    • Scam Update
  • Budget 2025
  • On The Up
  • World
    • All World
    • Australia
    • Asia
    • UK
    • United States
    • Middle East
    • Europe
    • Pacific
  • Business
    • All Business
    • MarketsSharesCurrencyCommoditiesStock TakesCrypto
    • Markets with Madison
    • Media Insider
    • Business analysis
    • Personal financeKiwiSaverInterest ratesTaxInvestment
    • EconomyInflationGDPOfficial cash rateEmployment
    • Small business
    • Business reportsMood of the BoardroomProject AucklandSustainable business and financeCapital markets reportAgribusiness reportInfrastructure reportDynamic business
    • Deloitte Top 200 Awards
    • CompaniesAged CareAgribusinessAirlinesBanking and financeConstructionEnergyFreight and logisticsHealthcareManufacturingMedia and MarketingRetailTelecommunicationsTourism
  • Opinion
    • All Opinion
    • Analysis
    • Editorials
    • Business analysis
    • Premium opinion
    • Letters to the editor
  • Sport
    • All Sport
    • OlympicsParalympics
    • RugbySuper RugbyNPCAll BlacksBlack FernsRugby sevensSchool rugby
    • CricketBlack CapsWhite Ferns
    • Racing
    • NetballSilver Ferns
    • LeagueWarriorsNRL
    • FootballWellington PhoenixAuckland FCAll WhitesFootball FernsEnglish Premier League
    • GolfNZ Open
    • MotorsportFormula 1
    • Boxing
    • UFC
    • BasketballNBABreakersTall BlacksTall Ferns
    • Tennis
    • Cycling
    • Athletics
    • SailingAmerica's CupSailGP
    • Rowing
  • Lifestyle
    • All Lifestyle
    • Viva - Food, fashion & beauty
    • Society Insider
    • Royals
    • Sex & relationships
    • Food & drinkRecipesRecipe collectionsRestaurant reviewsRestaurant bookings
    • Health & wellbeing
    • Fashion & beauty
    • Pets & animals
    • The Selection - Shop the trendsShop fashionShop beautyShop entertainmentShop giftsShop home & living
    • Milford's Investing Place
  • Entertainment
    • All Entertainment
    • TV
    • MoviesMovie reviews
    • MusicMusic reviews
    • BooksBook reviews
    • Culture
    • ReviewsBook reviewsMovie reviewsMusic reviewsRestaurant reviews
  • Travel
    • All Travel
    • News
    • New ZealandNorthlandAucklandWellingtonCanterburyOtago / QueenstownNelson-TasmanBest NZ beaches
    • International travelAustraliaPacific IslandsEuropeUKUSAAfricaAsia
    • Rail holidays
    • Cruise holidays
    • Ski holidays
    • Luxury travel
    • Adventure travel
  • Kāhu Māori news
  • Environment
    • All Environment
    • Our Green Future
  • Talanoa Pacific news
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Property Insider
    • Interest rates tracker
    • Residential property listings
    • Commercial property listings
  • Health
  • Technology
    • All Technology
    • AI
    • Social media
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
    • Opinion
    • Audio & podcasts
  • Weather forecasts
    • All Weather forecasts
    • Kaitaia
    • Whangārei
    • Dargaville
    • Auckland
    • Thames
    • Tauranga
    • Hamilton
    • Whakatāne
    • Rotorua
    • Tokoroa
    • Te Kuiti
    • Taumaranui
    • Taupō
    • Gisborne
    • New Plymouth
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Dannevirke
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Levin
    • Paraparaumu
    • Masterton
    • Wellington
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Blenheim
    • Westport
    • Reefton
    • Kaikōura
    • Greymouth
    • Hokitika
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
    • Wānaka
    • Oamaru
    • Queenstown
    • Dunedin
    • Gore
    • Invercargill
  • Meet the journalists
  • Promotions & competitions
  • OneRoof property listings
  • Driven car news

Puzzles & Quizzes

  • Puzzles
    • All Puzzles
    • Sudoku
    • Code Cracker
    • Crosswords
    • Cryptic crossword
    • Wordsearch
  • Quizzes
    • All Quizzes
    • Morning quiz
    • Afternoon quiz
    • Sports quiz

Regions

  • Northland
    • All Northland
    • Far North
    • Kaitaia
    • Kerikeri
    • Kaikohe
    • Bay of Islands
    • Whangarei
    • Dargaville
    • Kaipara
    • Mangawhai
  • Auckland
  • Waikato
    • All Waikato
    • Hamilton
    • Coromandel & Hauraki
    • Matamata & Piako
    • Cambridge
    • Te Awamutu
    • Tokoroa & South Waikato
    • Taupō & Tūrangi
  • Bay of Plenty
    • All Bay of Plenty
    • Katikati
    • Tauranga
    • Mount Maunganui
    • Pāpāmoa
    • Te Puke
    • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua
  • Hawke's Bay
    • All Hawke's Bay
    • Napier
    • Hastings
    • Havelock North
    • Central Hawke's Bay
    • Wairoa
  • Taranaki
    • All Taranaki
    • Stratford
    • New Plymouth
    • Hāwera
  • Manawatū - Whanganui
    • All Manawatū - Whanganui
    • Whanganui
    • Palmerston North
    • Manawatū
    • Tararua
    • Horowhenua
  • Wellington
    • All Wellington
    • Kapiti
    • Wairarapa
    • Upper Hutt
    • Lower Hutt
  • Nelson & Tasman
    • All Nelson & Tasman
    • Motueka
    • Nelson
    • Tasman
  • Marlborough
  • West Coast
  • Canterbury
    • All Canterbury
    • Kaikōura
    • Christchurch
    • Ashburton
    • Timaru
  • Otago
    • All Otago
    • Oamaru
    • Dunedin
    • Balclutha
    • Alexandra
    • Queenstown
    • Wanaka
  • Southland
    • All Southland
    • Invercargill
    • Gore
    • Stewart Island
  • Gisborne

Media

  • Video
    • All Video
    • NZ news video
    • Business news video
    • Politics news video
    • Sport video
    • World news video
    • Lifestyle video
    • Entertainment video
    • Travel video
    • Markets with Madison
    • Kea Kids news
  • Podcasts
    • All Podcasts
    • The Front Page
    • On the Tiles
    • Ask me Anything
    • The Little Things
    • Cooking the Books
  • Cartoons
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • What the Actual
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / New Zealand

Devastating effects of revenge porn highlighted

NZ Herald
19 Apr, 2016 09:54 PM6 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

The victim said she was hugely relieved the police were able to use new cyber-bullying laws to shut the man down. Photo / iStock

The victim said she was hugely relieved the police were able to use new cyber-bullying laws to shut the man down. Photo / iStock

A young woman has spoken about how a former lover threatened to show her family, new boyfriend and university compromising photos of her unless she had sex with him.

The case is one of several prosecuted under new cyber-bullying legislation, which, just months old, has already protected several women from the devastating effects of revenge porn.

The Harmful Digital Communications Act was passed into law more than nine months ago allowing police to charge anyone who posts something online intending to cause harm to another person.

At the turn of the year, a police spokeswoman said eight had been charged under the act; but those numbers have risen since then with four known cases currently tracking through Auckland courts.

In one case, a 24-year-old plumber from the North Shore could also face as long as two years in jail or a fine of up to $50,000 for putting another young woman through psychological hell.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

The complainant - who spoke to the Herald on condition of anonymity - met the man online midway through last year and the pair struck up a bond.

The woman said she was suffering from depression and post-traumatic stress disorder at the time and was keen to make new friends.

"My mind wasn't in a good place," she said. "I felt unwanted and unloved."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Their relationship soon became more intimate but the woman confronted him after finding photos of herself, some taken without her knowledge, on his phone.

Though he deleted them, he took other x-rated snaps while she was sleeping.

But she only found out when she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The 24-year-old threatened to show the love rival the photos - "to show him who you really are" - unless she had sex with him.

Discover more

Lifestyle

The harm caused by porn addiction

02 May 06:15 AM
Technology

Scary future of revenge porn

19 May 02:43 AM

When she stalled he also claimed he would send them to her family and the university at which she was studying.

The victim was not aware of the new legislation but said she was hugely relieved the police were able to use it to shut the man down.

"The police were really good about it and took it seriously," she said. "They had it sorted out within 48 hours."

The man will be back in court next month and she hoped for at least a conviction against his name to mark the offending.

Meanwhile, she said her trust in other people had been shattered, which was made even more pertinent after her friend had been similarly pursued and severely injured by a man a few years ago.

The high-profile case combined with her own experience had given the woman much to dwell on and she encouraged others in her position to contact police.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"What happened to her was horrific and sure, it doesn't happen often, but it does happen," she said.

In another case, an east Auckland mechanic will appear in Manukau District Court next week after allegedly putting "semi-nude pictures" of a woman online.

And in Nelson District Court on Monday, Aaron Stephen Tamihana, 28, was sentenced to 11 months prison for sending a disturbing video to a woman via Facebook.

Detective senior sergeant Craig Johnston said the sentence sent a clear message that the justice system took this kind of offending extremely seriously.

"People need to think very seriously about what they are posting in any digital media forum and if the intention is to cause harm to another person the consequences could be very serious as we have seen here."

He said that even using offensive language in digital communications with the intention of causing emotional harm to another person could be considered an offence under the act.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"People need to take the message the judge has sent in this case very seriously as their use of social networks and electronic communications could land them in a lot of trouble."

James Ting-Edwards, issues advisor to internetNZ and Auckland District Law Society member, said such cases were "right in the bullseye" of what the new law was trying to capture.

But he pointed out that only part of the legislation was operational.

A key part of the legal framework will see the Government appointing an "Approved Agency", which will act as a mediator in disputes between complainants and those hosting the allegedly harmful content.

It is understood Netsafe will compete with the Office of the Privacy Commissioner for the role and a decision will likely be made by the Ministry of Justice before July.

Netsafe's chief technology officer Sean Lyons said the Approved Agency would work with parties to find a solution rather than swamping the court with civil cases.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"We think it's great there's now legislation," Mr Lyons said. "This is not like the UK legislation where a guy puts a nasty tweet up and does six months [jail]."

He said the act provided judges with a range of non-punitive options including issuing takedown notices, ordering rights of reply to be published or apologies alongside offensive material.

The system was "unrivalled", he said.

But there have already been murmurings of concern within the blogging community about freedom of speech.

Those worries were exacerbated in December when a Dunedin-based blogger was ordered, under the act, to censor his website by a District Court judge, only for the judge to rescind his judgement six days later because the sections he cited were not yet in effect.

Mr Lyons believed any concerns were unwarranted.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

"There a feeling out there... that there's something really badly wrong with the legislation, probably based on infringing on people's rights to express their opinions. The truth is, at some point it might. But if your freedom of speech breaks the law and harms people there has to be a conversation about that," he said.

The numbers

• 60 hours of video uploaded to YouTube every minute

• 483 million people around the world actively engage on Facebook every day

• 1 billion tweets are sent by Twitter users every day

• 2.9 million Trade Me users who publish 20,000 new posts on message boards every day

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Source: Law Commission ministerial briefing paper

NZME rk

Save

    Share this article

Latest from New Zealand

Premium
Analysis

Jenée Tibshraeny: Five things to watch in today's 'Reality Bites Budget'

21 May 05:01 PM
Premium
New Zealand|education

'Impossible position': Principals alarmed by cuts to youth mental health service

21 May 05:00 PM
Premium
Editorial

Editorial: Show us your plan to prosperity, Nicola Willis

21 May 05:00 PM

The Hire A Hubby hero turning handyman stereotypes on their head

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from New Zealand

Premium
Jenée Tibshraeny: Five things to watch in today's 'Reality Bites Budget'

Jenée Tibshraeny: Five things to watch in today's 'Reality Bites Budget'

21 May 05:01 PM

Will Nicola Willis be able to cut spending and spur growth?

Premium
'Impossible position': Principals alarmed by cuts to youth mental health service

'Impossible position': Principals alarmed by cuts to youth mental health service

21 May 05:00 PM
Five players win almost $60k each in Lotto Second Division - where were tickets sold?

Five players win almost $60k each in Lotto Second Division - where were tickets sold?

21 May 05:00 PM
‘Show me the money’: Nicola Willis issues challenge to Labour

‘Show me the money’: Nicola Willis issues challenge to Labour

21 May 05:00 PM
Gold demand soars amid global turmoil
sponsored

Gold demand soars amid global turmoil

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • NZ Herald e-editions
  • Daily puzzles & quizzes
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Subscribe to the NZ Herald newspaper
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • What the Actual
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven CarGuide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP